Went to supermarket earlier to do christmas stuff with husband, baby and 3 year old. Children have both been ill all week with coughs, vomiting. Today I have sore throat, headache, aches, sickness etc. but manned it up to go get stuff for Christmas. I actually quite enjoy the Christmas food shop. I like cooking, enjoy choosing things.
Within a couple of mins of getting into the fruit and veg bit the baby starts whining, so I pick her up to comfort her, then look around and can see no sign of my husband anyway. Literally we've been in the shop five mins, I'd only put a bag of satsuma son the trolley. So I look around the fruit and veg got him, try to pick up veg, realise I can't carry anything as he has trolley and I'm holding baby. So think he must have gone into the next aisle or two. So I go look, no sign of him. Cue then half an hour of me looking round entire supermarket without seeing him, feeling increasingly ill, angry, panicky and worried. At one point have to dash to toilet due to sickness. Eventually I get the customer services to call him on the tannoy.
Turns out he just decided that it'd be quicker to do the shopping on his own, saw me comforting the baby, thought I was taking too long and left me. Taking my bag, phone, the trolley. He knew I was ill. I'm also short sighted, didn't have my glasses and the place was massive and heaving.
I'm surprised that the whole thing freaked me out so much that when he heard the tannoy call and came got me, I ended up having a panic attack and bursting into tears, almost fainting.
He thinks he did nothing wrong. AIBU to be fed up with him? Surely you wouldn't walk off and leave anyone like that without saying, let alone your ill wife and baby?