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538 replies

HullyEastergully · 06/12/2012 10:17

Why are:

  1. Certain items of clothing = "mumsy" eg bootcuts, tunics, some boots but not others (forget which)
  1. Short wide jumpers are inherently better than others
  1. Anyone over a size 12 = fat
  1. Fat = mumsy
  1. That thinking the above makes you a cleverer and more knowing alnd all-round better person with a slight pitying disdain for those that don't agree.

Lastly I would like a definition of "Mumsy" and why it is an insult.

Thank you.

OP posts:
KrisMoose · 06/12/2012 13:27

Oh ignore me, I hadn't RTFT.

Hully vs AnnaWintour THE REMATCH

TurkeyGibletsGeekette · 06/12/2012 13:27

Oh Dexter that might be it. I'm a sweary cah today Blush

LRDtheFeministDude · 06/12/2012 13:27

Good lord, Sue.

Between that and hully in leather, I'm out of here.

SuePurblyFeltYourPresents · 06/12/2012 13:28

FFS Kris RTFT.
Blimes.

KrisMoose · 06/12/2012 13:29

I'm too busy being Stylish and Beautiful to RTFT.
Ahem.

HullyEastergully · 06/12/2012 13:29

It's deffo the rude version

Sue, imagine if you cookd in that thing, you'd go whoosh in no time

OP posts:
HullyEastergully · 06/12/2012 13:30

Great name, Pinot

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MissBeehivingUnderTheMistletoe · 06/12/2012 13:30

Hully Grin

Have you never seen any of TSC's annual trouser threads? Grin That'd learn ya.

SPsFanjoIsSantasLittleHoHoHo · 06/12/2012 13:30

What Kris said. I'm not a tunicist either.

SuePurblyFeltYourPresents · 06/12/2012 13:31

You'd whoosh from the waist up. Your lower special places would be Fresh'n'free.

Shelby2010 · 06/12/2012 13:31

Presumably being a YummyMummy is the opposite of being Mumsy...? Both terms make my teeth itch.

And is there really a place on MN dedicated to stopping me looking Mumsy? Will they come shopping with me & tell me what I should buy? Until I read this thread I thought tunics were stylish & look quite flattering. I clearly need help urgently.

SuePurblyFeltYourPresents · 06/12/2012 13:33

I hate tunics. Mostly cos I carry all my weight in a foodbaby pot belly and I look pg in them. If I ever fancy a laugh, I picture myself in a sweater dress - the one time I tried I looked like a lumpy fair isle sausage.

KrisMoose · 06/12/2012 13:34

Fanks, Hully. Or Suzi Quattro as I shall now imagine you as.

You'll get thrush in all that leather

S&B is a luvverly place - almost all of the jibes are tongue-in-cheek. You know I'm a terrible wussy-knicks but I cope OK over there!

Caerlaverock · 06/12/2012 13:35

Tbh the skinny jean folk don't start weeping when they a told they look like golf clubs In their skinny jeans converse combo. Tunic wearers are obv a touch more sensitive

garlicbaubles · 06/12/2012 13:38

Gleefully marking place.

But I'm only coming back here if Hully links to a picture of her leather onesie Grin

KrisMoose · 06/12/2012 13:38

sweater dresses are 'orrible on everyone. Myself very much included.

Absy · 06/12/2012 13:38

What's FWR and why is it so controversial?

KrisMoose · 06/12/2012 13:39

Feminism Womens Rights I think

Hello Absy love

garlicbaubles · 06/12/2012 13:43

Oh, will re-post my reply on Tunicgate. Should stress, as someone else remarked above, that style does not necessarily equal fashion. Now that starts arguments ... !

Previous post:
p.15 - Hully's question: Can one be "fashionable" and enjoy clothes WITHOUT sneering at those that don't?

I love this question! I used to work in fashion (yes, I'm now fat and probably 'mumsy'.)

Whilst wearing fashion that was so cutting-edge it hadn't even made it into 'fashion' yet, I did not judge those who hadn't a clue why I was wearing what I wore ... and, as a genuine fashion maven, would judge their style on whether it worked for the wearer personally, in their personal context. You know those street style snapshots all the fashion mags do? They're not interested in whether the wearer has correctly interpreted the season's design vernacular; they're celebrating individuals' joyous personal style.

There is, on the other hand, a sizeable layer of fashion aficionados who judge everybody else. These people spend lots of money each season, on clothes & accessories that mark them out as 'fashionable' to other people like themselves. Hilariously, those people would judge my looks most adversely because they were too sheep-like to realise they'd be spending all of next season's wages on watered-down versions of what I was in. And they were BORING so I judged them Xmas Wink They believe there's a right and a wrong to style and they believe they have special access to the rules. They are mistaken.

I still judge people like that, btw ...

peachypips · 06/12/2012 13:43

I've just asked for a jumper-dress-tunic thing from my mum for Christmas. But I have skinny jeans. Oh, and flowery Moshulu slippers on. And a cardy. But a rock-chick style dress too. So am mumslish. Or stylsy.

KrisMoose · 06/12/2012 13:44

Judging people is a bad thing? Xmas Shock Hmm

tethersjinglebellend · 06/12/2012 13:45

I have been saying that mumboots were going to be huge and biker boots becoming the new mumboot for two years now.

I WAS SHUNNED.

Then I saw a thread on S&B last week saying exactly that where everyone nodded furiously in agreement.

It's almost as if MN isn't all about me. Almost.

garlicbaubles · 06/12/2012 13:47

Absy, the Feminism board is controversial for lots of reasons. One of them is that many women aren't aware of "performing femininity" and get quite humphy when other women try and point it out to them. In this regard, there's a strong link between S&B and FWR. I enjoy explorations of this link; not everyone does.

SuePurblyFeltYourPresents · 06/12/2012 13:47

I don't see why the S&Bs shouldn't be bitchy about fashion though, if they want to. That's like coming onto the XF thread in Telly Addicts and telling us to shush our bitching at the bad singing. We LIKE the bitching. It's good. And it's in the right place - we're not inflicting it on the babynamers.

Or are we not veering into saccharine u no ur bubz hun responses all the places? If we can't have a good old bitch?

KrisMoose · 06/12/2012 13:48

I hate biker boots. My Mother (age 63) wears them. My lip curls back over the top of my head when I see her in them.