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HullyEastergully · 06/12/2012 10:17

Why are:

  1. Certain items of clothing = "mumsy" eg bootcuts, tunics, some boots but not others (forget which)
  1. Short wide jumpers are inherently better than others
  1. Anyone over a size 12 = fat
  1. Fat = mumsy
  1. That thinking the above makes you a cleverer and more knowing alnd all-round better person with a slight pitying disdain for those that don't agree.

Lastly I would like a definition of "Mumsy" and why it is an insult.

Thank you.

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BaublesAndCuntingCarolSingers · 06/12/2012 17:16

Wasn't me matey.

lostconfusedwhatnext · 06/12/2012 17:17

Finally, in short:

  1. Certain items of clothing = "mumsy" eg bootcuts, tunics, some boots but not others (forget which)

No idea, hate "mumsy" as derogatory, however some things are more frumpy than others, on certain people, worn in a certain way, and people will discuss there opinions on this in S&B. The OP was saying that people who go to S&B and ask for advice are all being advised the same thing which lacks imagination and does those people a disservice

  1. Short wide jumpers are inherently better than others

That was one poster. Nothing is inherently better than anything else in fashion, or style, anyway. Hully, this is a straw jumper.

  1. Anyone over a size 12 = fat

No way, no one said that. I think some people said that perhaps people who feel themselves to be too big gravitate towards styles which other people feel unflattering. No one said absolutely what is fat. No one said fat is bad either, even if they did say people over certain sizes are it. I am afraid this is a straw fat woman.

  1. Fat = mumsy

More straw

  1. That thinking the above makes you a cleverer and more knowing alnd all-round better person with a slight pitying disdain for those that don't agree.

Oh come on. this is a whole barn of straw. You might as well go into a place where people are arguing about how to make the best cakes and start saying "Why do you think that knowing all about butter icing makes you better than me? I don't care about icing" when actually they are having a discussion about which icing is better, not WHO is better

Lastly I would like a definition of "Mumsy" and why it is an insult.

I wouldn't bother with this one. It's just obviously wrong and you know it.

HullyEastergully · 06/12/2012 17:18

It was very funny, can't remember who it was now. Might have been Absy.

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SuePurblyFeltYourPresents · 06/12/2012 17:18

Laugh? I nearly did.

HullyEastergully · 06/12/2012 17:19

yeah, whatevs, lost.

You obvs didn't rthatft either

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Amblin · 06/12/2012 17:22

Fat isn't mumsy. Who said it is?
I wouldn't call Beth ditto mumsy.

Who said short wide jumpers are good ?

HullyEastergully · 06/12/2012 17:23

Well helllllllllllllllllllllo

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HullyEastergully · 06/12/2012 17:23

It's all on that thread, but there's no way I'm going hunting because I cba.

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Amblin · 06/12/2012 17:23

Mumsy means safe, resistant to fashion.Prioritising others over self all the time with a soupçon of doormat.
Loosely linked to a kind of Puritan ethos that self adornment is ungodly.

also likes crocs

Amblin · 06/12/2012 17:24

I'm only hopping in.

Work all day and gym coming up.

HullyEastergully · 06/12/2012 17:24

Anyway we've moved on.

We are doing garments with questionable emotions now.

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LRDtheFeministDude · 06/12/2012 17:25

I obviously put my foot in it. Sorry for that. I'll bow out now.

HullyEastergully · 06/12/2012 17:26

Oh don't be daft. Have a handkerchief of rue.

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Absy · 06/12/2012 17:26

twas me

I'm hilar

IsaXMASbelleRinging · 06/12/2012 17:27

I thought mumsy was just a look, not a way of life Hmm.

KrisMoose · 06/12/2012 17:28
MerryKissMyArse · 06/12/2012 17:34

I wear very mums bootcut jeans because they flatter my size/shape and if I wore:

trendy skinnies I'd look like a very short, fat parsnip, or

a baggy boyfriend cut I'd look like a sack of spuds.

(vegetable theme going on here)

MerryKissMyArse · 06/12/2012 17:37

Short,wide jumpers (especially those silky, sloppy ones that hang off one shoulder) only look good on tall, thin women. I Short plump women look truly awful in them. Like Jimmy Krankie having a fight in a duvet cover.

TuftyFinch · 06/12/2012 17:40

Well, pie was a bit disappointing. DS did well to opt for Linda's sausages. I prefer quorn ones. Maybe I'll make a pie. Doubtful.
Disingenuous dungerees?

TuftyFinch · 06/12/2012 17:41

What did you put your foot in LRD? I put mine in cat sick earlier. Bloody cat.

SuePurblyFeltYourPresents · 06/12/2012 17:46

I have wet feet. So probably resentful socks too.
I still don't know where to get a witty or a fighty jacket. Xmas Sad

TuftyFinch · 06/12/2012 17:51

Sue, try www.wittyjackets.com
If the domain name's free, buy it and we'll build an empire.

SuePurblyFeltYourPresents · 06/12/2012 17:53

Can we also sell 'flirty' skirts?
That makes me stabby too.

HullyEastergully · 06/12/2012 17:53

Oh I want to do it too.

Don't leave me out, can I do Outspoken and Rude Jerkins?

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TuftyFinch · 06/12/2012 18:01

Of course Hully. We'll be rich.
Jealous jeans
Sulky socks
Boisterous boots
Natty knickers