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to have fed my baby here?

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ariane5 · 03/12/2012 11:08

Went shopping yesteerday.ds1. Jas a blu badge so we parked in a disabled space.went to shops and back to car couple of hours later. We have 4 dcs and the baby 7 mths started screaming and was hungry.by then the car park was packd. I started to feed ds while dh got other dcs in car and an elderly couple drove past and politely asked if we were leaving, dh said sorry not yet then 2 other drivers did the same but the fourth stopped got out and said please could we hurry up, I explained that when I had fed ds we would be going but she was really angry and said a disabled space is not just for sitting in that we should go immediately. I was only another ten mins fding ds it is hard enough going out as all dcs have same condition and ds2 was really screaming I had to feed him as it was a long drive home. Was I being unreasonable?

OP posts:
SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 04/12/2012 22:11
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SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 04/12/2012 22:12

Oh I like that Glaikit.

Xmas Grin
GlaikitFizzogTheChristmasElf · 04/12/2012 22:13

Good use for empty glasses

Afrodizzywonders · 04/12/2012 22:13

I'm due to give birth any day.....and I think when this thread is full labour may start, I'm already getting some pretty strong Braxtons, so hurry up! Fill it, I think I'll finally 'unclench'

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 04/12/2012 22:14

Might have to have a Brew in a minute. All that mulled Wine will go to my head.

GlaikitFizzogTheChristmasElf · 04/12/2012 22:14
NolittleBuddahsorTigerMomshere · 04/12/2012 22:15

Offered that was entirelly uncalled for, I was offering advice based on my greater levell of knowlledge and experience, there was no need to be so rude. IF you can't accept that others have spent a great deal of time researching to become respected in their fielld, I woulld sugges you don't go into Academa as you won't get far! I allso have practise and advocacy experience so my comments about the the need to tighten your arguments are based on experience too, if you don't want then fine, but don't be so rude.

PS if spelling is such an indication of tallent, I will tell one world renouned colllleague and my very professionally well respected OH, both dyslexic to packk it in now shalll I? Angry

GlaikitFizzogTheChristmasElf · 04/12/2012 22:15

Have you had a hot curry Wink

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 04/12/2012 22:15

You'll definitely need a Brew then Afro - all the best Smile

GlaikitFizzogTheChristmasElf · 04/12/2012 22:16

Pineapple? Shock

Afrodizzywonders · 04/12/2012 22:16

Thank you Glaikit, I thought putting the Christmas tree up would do it and filling the chest freezer with meals....but actually, I think this thread has got me finally moving.

GlaikitFizzogTheChristmasElf · 04/12/2012 22:16

Dare I say it .............

GlaikitFizzogTheChristmasElf · 04/12/2012 22:17

What I call S E X

NolittleBuddahsorTigerMomshere · 04/12/2012 22:18

Tufty, why were my congratulations anymore patronising than yours? I offered advice based on experience. If Offered doesn't want it then fine, but stop stirring the shit

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 04/12/2012 22:19

My mw told me to scrub the kitchen floor on my hands and knees when I was heavily pregnant.

Because 1. You'll be in just the right position to get the baby in the right position for birth.

And 2. Because you won't have a chance to clean the floor again for weeks.

Xmas Shock
NolittleBuddahsorTigerMomshere · 04/12/2012 22:19

Nothing in reply Offered, unusual?

GlaikitFizzogTheChristmasElf · 04/12/2012 22:19

110 to go!

Afrodizzywonders · 04/12/2012 22:19

No pineapple, had curry.......been ill with lots of bugs which I think has made me hang on, feeling better now and this baby is a biggie so it's time to come out methinks, last one was 10lb and arrived on time.

RyleDup · 04/12/2012 22:19

Ooh Glaik, think I will join you in the Wine. I've just cracked open a bottle of fizz!! And well done Offred, excellent news.

GlaikitFizzogTheChristmasElf · 04/12/2012 22:21

Have you done a birth plan Afro!

Afrodizzywonders · 04/12/2012 22:22

Yes, a bonk is a good idea (sorry everyone)....that got the last one moving! Not that it's really what I feel like, but I know it works!

GlaikitFizzogTheChristmasElf · 04/12/2012 22:22

Oof!

Ryle you are my deleted buddy!

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 04/12/2012 22:23

I think sometimes certain posters on MN need to be starved of the attention they crave.

Just being totally wrong, out of order and insulting isn't enough - they have to keep on picking and picking at other posters to get a response.

So, instead I'll raise a toast to Afro for a lovely easy birth for her lovely Christmas baby Wine

Kneedeepinshittynappies · 04/12/2012 22:24

So no little opinion that op was BU, fair enough but seems to be completely ignoring the fact that it's been proven that it was not a misuse of the BB, hmmmm. Stop feeding the troll folks

Offred · 04/12/2012 22:24

Sorry nolittle I was on the phone to my dad. The problem is that you have not provided anything to support your assertion that you are an authority and as I have said before you have made a number of silly mistakes with fundamental principles. I'd be perfectly willing to accept the authority of someone willing to provide credible justification for the things they say and be fair, what you said to me was nasty and it is the first time I have actually bitten despite having direct insults levelled at me more than once. Plus I stand by it. I don't find you credible or an authority based on what you have said on this thread.