to have got angry at her? hair dye kid ?

[TysonsMummy]

this woman in the cresh said it can be bad for toddles if you put dye in there hair but on tyson its only a little bit of semi permenant on the tips of his hair its got no bad chemicals in its 1 that dont contain them !! my child my rules i was like well im sure your not perfect yourself no way and she was like im just saying i said WELL DONT JUST SAY cuz i dont want to hear your shit !! and then i said about how i like her childs coat and it looks like tysons and she couldnt take the complament i can tell

d0oin I think she's getting a hard time because of the attitude rather than the actual act.
But I still don't agree with dying a 3 year olds hair tbh.

by the way im not sayin bottle feeding is bad its the example of what people could say

Nor do I really but the reactions she got were OTT. It's no surprise she got defensive. She sounds very young.

I formula fed my youngest. For my own reasons. The thing is, if I didn't, he would not have had any food. If you don't dye your sons hair, then he just doesn't have red hair. That's the bloody obvious difference.

well no .. you was all saying this stuff before i even replyed ....

Fair enough d0oin

It just seems like one of those threads where it's either a complete wind up or an OP that refuses to listen to anyone's opinion.

what do you want me to say o ok then sorry i will change now ?

No, but you asked for an opinion. You got opinions. You didn't like it.

You are going to get people who disagree with what you did. You must know that.

mrswolowits my mum dyed mine n all my brothers n sisters a few times n nothing bad happen
yer i compared it to them things cuz it makes sense to me

tantrums about 3 people have said anythin about the woman ......

I bottle feed because my boobs don't produce the food DD needs. I don't dye my kids hair because I think it looks chavvy. My choice. Yours is different abduction while I think it is not appropriate I would not say anything because I would expect the abusive reaction you gave. Judge silently? You bet. You wbu to swear at her.

OP, you might get a better response if you use real words and sentences. MNetters can get a bit huffy about grammar and spelling. My sister uses a similar language to you, but even so it still makes my head hurt trying to decipher it.

Are you northern? I've only ever heard 'yer' being used oop north.

Abduction? ? Stupid phone. I meant "and", obviously.

stropz my point is that if some1 came up to you n said it was wrong then would u be annoyed or what ?

Ok. The woman is irelevant tbh.

Dying a 3 year olds hair is AFAIK quite unusual.
So it may cause attention.
So I don't think it's beyond the realms of possibility that people are going to comment on it whilst you are out.

Is it her place to comment? Maybe not. But that's going to happen. People will comment.

When you put it out onto the Internet, again people will comment.
Either be prepared to take it on board or don't. It's up to you.

doinmecleanin no not northern i mean yeh
dont think it should matter i am not the best at english not at all

This thread has cheered my right up!

OP, if you're for real I suspect that people may comment on all sorts of aspects of your life in the future.

If you are messing around, well done!

If they swore at me yes I would be. It all depends on how it was said and what I was doing. I jokingly asked my hairdresser to dye my child's hair and she politely declined telling me it wasn't good for her. I did not take offence! I only asked to see her reaction but she was so nice about it. The point is even tho everyone here has told you it's not a good idea you want to pretend it is.

Don't forget to take a picture of him to embarrass him with on his wedding day... he'll probably be mortified that you did this to him at an age when he had no choice.

Is this real?

Just in case it is, OP you do realise that everyone is taking the piss don't you?

my mum dyed mine n all my brothers n sisters a few times n nothing bad happen I would beg to differ.

Who is the OP then?

that womans the 1st ever to say anything about the dye until this thread

Oh dear. Seriously for a moment (and giving you the benefit of the doubt that this might be completely true), this thread is now hundreds of posts long. The massively overwhelming majority of people have told you that you are wrong to colour your DS's hair. You still think you were right (presumably?), so really if you weren't open to being told that, why post on this board?!

You were also abusive to the woman who (quite rightly) said something to you about colouring your DS's hair.

You are very much in the wrong here. The answer to your original question is yes, YWBU. You were U in your reaction, you were U in colouring the hair to begin with, and you are U to continue defending such a stupid action.