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7 degrees and no hat or coat on babes in arms

122 replies

orangeflute · 16/11/2012 11:22

Why do people do this? A woman just walked past me outside of Tesco with a baby in her arms. Thin sleepsuit - that's it. AIBU to think she should be keeping the poor little love all nice and snuggly?

OP posts:
mrskeithrichards · 16/11/2012 12:41

Oh my.

Whatnowffs · 16/11/2012 12:44

But they might trip over!!!!!! thats all im saying and yes i did read that there seemed to be some new trend to carry your child everywhere rather than in a buggy or sling. I am clearly paranoid, its ok, i know i know :)

DameMargotFountain · 16/11/2012 12:48

and if the baby was in a pram/buggy a huge eagle might swoop down and carry it off to feed to the little fluffy but rather enormously-taloned baby eagles?

flippant Grin

i don't think it's a trend, it's rather lovely to snuggle your baby by carrying her/him. it shares warmth for a start Wink

LookAtAllTheseFucksIGive · 16/11/2012 12:55

the silly rules in materity hospitals that you can't carry the baby it has to be in the little fishbowl box thing is maybe scaring new parents into thinking they don't have the ability to safely carry their baby.
I remember being admonished by a very snarky mw for daring to do such a thing. I was speechless.

Whatnowffs · 16/11/2012 12:56

Dame Margot, that is clearly rubbish, you don't get eagles round here - but a pteradactyl might come and swoop off with both mother AND child, they woudlnt be interested in the buggy because it would be too crunchy!

I sound a bit mad don't i - but i really don't think its paranoid to worry about tripping while carrying a new baby?

Oh, just me then?

Anyway, i must away and restock on cotton wool to wrap DD in! Grin

LookAtAllTheseFucksIGive · 16/11/2012 12:59

I tripped over pushing dd2 in her pram. Her pram flipped over. Luckily she was strapped in. I see so many babies being pushed in prams without any apparent straps. It can happen to anyone. No point not holding your baby just on the off chance you might trip.

thekidsrule · 16/11/2012 13:00

paula yates always carried tiger-lilly

though have similar thought's to Whatnowffs

and i never liked slings,always worried about falling/tripping

OxfordBags · 16/11/2012 13:04

My 19 month old Ds is always hot, to the point where he can be boiling to the touch, red and sweaty when others are shivering. I am putting him in a coat at the mo, but he still gets sticky and sweaty, even when it's so cold we can see our breath. Our bloody neighbour loves to rush out telling us he's going to die of hypothermia because we let him - wait for it - walk from the front door to the car without a coat (he doesn't wear one in the car, because he really does overheat and besides, we can heat it up or put a little blanket on him in the rare event he is chilly. The irony is, she's one of those 'thin top and ballet shoes in the snow' freaks herself!

OP, the mother might have just been going from a warmcar to a warm shop, or vice versa.

Whatnow, FFS, you have left me speechless! You actually think carrying your child is a new trend? I guess humans never left their caves until the wheel was invented and someone could also invent a pushchair?! Okay, I know you mean new as opposed to using a pram or buggy to transport them everywhere, but it's still very silly. It's much nicer for the adult and child to carry the tot. I am the opposite - I feel sorry for children who are never carried but just carted about everywhere in a buggy. Where's the connection, the interaction, the closeness? Know you can't have that all the time, but...meh, I'm a babywearing old hippy, me! Oh, and kids can have accidents in buggies too; falling out due to incorrect strap usage or plain old escapology, being jerked and hurt if the wheel hits a stone, a parent could let go by mistake on a slope, buggy toppling over cos it's been overloaded and there are quite a few accidents where parents or carers have stood at the road edge waiting to cross and unconsciously placed the front of their pram or buggy sticking out into the road,etc., etc.

Juustanothermnetter · 16/11/2012 13:04

Yabu
You don't know the situation. An hour ago I dashed from the shopping mall to the pharmacy 1 min away neither ds 7 months, dd 2 had a coat. It was an unexpected quick dash that had to be done then and there. I am in a 3/4 sleeve dress and was fine. Don't judge unless you know the circumstances.

If baby and mum were outside for a good 5 mins then judge away, but a quick dash car to shop is fine imo.

Ahardyfool · 16/11/2012 13:06

I detest people like you OP.

Also, who says 'babe in arms'? Weird

DameMargotFountain · 16/11/2012 13:06

and i pushed a friend's DC and the pram collapsed

accidents happen, whatever, and wherever - it's horrible, but true

just like my eagle story Grin

SoleSource · 16/11/2012 13:09

Maybe the baby has a slight tempreture. I was advised to walk around in the hospital carpark with my baby in his nappy and it was ankle deep in snow.

thekidsrule · 16/11/2012 13:09

never mind eagles the sea gulls are huge around here Wink

Kalisi · 16/11/2012 13:11

Depends what time of the day it was OP. I tend to start off every cold day with a hat, coat, socks,shoes and a blanket for my 1 yr old. Within 15 minutes of leaving the house, I'm lucky if he's not naked takes after his Father
Obviously the age is different but even from birth he hated any sort of clothes restriction and became overheated very quickly. Swaddling was.....interesting Hmm

Ahardyfool · 16/11/2012 13:11

Argh! I just realised. The thread is about Tesco. I agree, babes in arms should only be scantily clad outside Waitrose. Tesco is the scurge of the earth. After Walmart that is...

LookAtAllTheseFucksIGive · 16/11/2012 13:12

When my babies were tiny and we were out and about dh used to love taking them out of their prams and walking around with them close to his chest. He'd have his mouth resting on their heads constantly kissing them and they'd be watching the world go by while sucking on their fists. The closeness was lovely and it made me so proud. I have a photo of him doing it and everyone comments on how cute it is. I love seeing dads with their babies.

LDNmummy · 16/11/2012 13:13

cheeky that's awful Shock

honeytea · 16/11/2012 13:17

I do worry about slipping on ice whilst carrying a baby but how often do young healthy people with sensible shoes and no alcohol just fall over in the street. I am especially clumsy but even I don't fall over for no reason.

The hospital fishbowl rule is so silly, if you have managed to keep the baby safe for 9 moths and are expected to keep them safe for the next 18 years I think you should be trusted to carry the baby. I thought maybe it was because the mother would have just given birth and maybe be feeling a little wobbly but I got in trouble for carrying my baby sister across the hall from my mums room to the tv room so my mum could sleep for a while (I was 18 not 6 I can imagine they wouldn't want 6 year olds wondering around with a newborn)

LDNmummy · 16/11/2012 13:17

I worry about falling over with my baby when its been raining or its snowy/ frosty.

I am buying some heavy duty snow boots this year because of that.

It doesn't make it better that they don't seem to salt the roads and walk ways properly anymore.

prettybird · 16/11/2012 13:18

I can run from a swimming pool to one hot tub to another hot tub in a swimming costume outside in temperatures of -10C

You don't lose your residual body heat immediately. It takes a couple of minutes.

GwendolineMaryLacey · 16/11/2012 13:23

People must be constantly tutting at me then. DD2 is a very hot baby, hates anything on her feet, screams until I take them off and, tbh, there are worse things in the world than a baby having bare feet outside for the 27 seconds it takes me to get from the car into Tescos. If we're out longer then she'll be in the pushchair and the footmuff.

She also hates hats and won't even wear the Christmas pudding one I bought her no taste.

DameMargotFountain · 16/11/2012 13:25

if you don't over-dress your children, it's harder for the eagles to get a grip too Grin

more padding means more to grab

DameMargotFountain · 16/11/2012 13:26

tuts at GML for buying novelty hat

LookAtAllTheseFucksIGive · 16/11/2012 13:33

Actually, if everyone starts buying [http://adventuresofamiddleagemom.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/baby-with-beard-hat.jpg these] then the chance of kids heads disintergrating due to being frozen off are almost halved. :o

LookAtAllTheseFucksIGive · 16/11/2012 13:33

Oops these! Blush

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