Right, now I've read the whole thread.
I did actually, on occassion, like dp. I remember there was a thread in chat (I'm pretty sure I've mentioned this before) where someone's daft DH had lost their passport in a cab or summat, and they were flying out on vacation the next day. DP asked her dh (who was presumably a cabbie) to send out a cabbie announcement thingy on the radio, to see if they could find the passport AND then also offered the poster a free cab ride to the airport, which was nice. I also LOVED pointing out, on many occassions when dp was mid anti-immigrant rant, that her parents were immigrants so it was all quite hypocritical. I don't know if I ever got to point out that I was an immigrant as well and exploded her brain.