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AIBU?

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AIBU to think that even if you live in the SE/London, £7000 a month is enough to live on?

67 replies

LadyKooKoo · 02/11/2012 06:56

The second writer thinks not

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peggyblackett · 02/11/2012 07:02

It's Shona Sibary, what do you expect Hmm Grin

LadyKooKoo · 02/11/2012 07:06

That's my mistake then, I had never even heard of her until today.

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MrsMangelfanciedPaulRobinson · 02/11/2012 07:11

Didn't she once do an article about having to sell her house? I think they now rent a house for 3k a month or something in that region!

sawseesaw · 02/11/2012 07:18

Who is she, the silly mare?

MothershipG · 02/11/2012 07:28

I have no idea who she is but if she chooses to privately educate her children that is her prerogative, but doesn't mean the tax payer is obligated to subsidise those kind of choices.

addictedisback · 02/11/2012 07:28

wow. just wow.

FayeKinitt · 02/11/2012 08:02

So she pays to privately educate (two, not all!) of her kids, but doesn't own a housr Confused

I hope her parents didn't pay out a fortune for her education because she seems a bit thick to me.

FayeKinitt · 02/11/2012 08:02

house

FunBagFreddie · 02/11/2012 08:08

Argh! Daily Fail link, should have known it! I really dislike that woman, she is a shit stain on the gusset of humanity.

MrsMangelfanciedPaulRobinson · 02/11/2012 08:18

Lol at funbagfreddie, who has summed up my thoughts perfectly!

UndeadPixie · 02/11/2012 08:21

I've never even heard if her, but if she likes I'll swap, dp and I are on £1200 between my job and his student loans and job (which he is having to give up in order to not fail uni!) Stupid cow.

Lizzylou · 02/11/2012 08:28

So she pays to privately educate (two, not all!) of her kids, but doesn't own a house

I hope her parents didn't pay out a fortune for her education because she seems a bit thick to me.

This ^

Fakebook · 02/11/2012 08:29

Shock. Well, at least she's spending some of that 7k on sorting out the kids teeth.

LadyStark · 02/11/2012 08:30

If I'm being particularly generous I can see that maybe for a short period it would be more challenging than you'd expect it to be on that salary.

x2 children in nursery or private school 2000-3000
rent on a 3 bed house 1600
Travel £200 p/month each, £400
Bills and council tax £500

That still leaves £1500 for living expenses although it's possible I missed something out, although with four children I imagine that could go pretty quickly.

Still a ridiculous point she's making, they should manage their finances a bit better/move to a cheaper area/rent somewhere with good state schools to save on school fees.

squeakytoy · 02/11/2012 08:52

Shona Sibary is one of the most ridiculous writers that the DM uses. Each story that she is paid for contradicts the other.

PeshwariNaan · 02/11/2012 09:01

Gosh, and lower-class people who have more than 2 children are punished by having their benefits revoked - meanwhile this cow feels entitled to have 4 and live comfortably in London, sending her children to independent schools?

Lovely, some of my neighbours...

KenAdams · 02/11/2012 09:04

Does anyone else fancy writing a load of rubbish for the DM? They all seem to get paid quite well on it.

AuscreemaAscare · 02/11/2012 09:10

Isn't she the one we were all taking the piss out of last year for whinging about having to rent a tiny six-bed house? Her DH is called Poor Keith I think. I wonder how Poor Keith is.

VoiceofUnreason · 02/11/2012 09:16

As was commented on the site and as part of the greedy bitch thread yesterday, she/they knew what their finances were after child 2. They had another child. They knew what their finances were after child 3. They had another child. THEN they say they can't afford their lifestyle without child benefit. If they couldn't make things manage without child benefit, they certainly shouldn't have had child 4 and possibly not child 3.

Again, it's back to responsibility. Just because you WANT doesn't mean you should HAVE.

RawShark · 02/11/2012 09:19

the point of the welfare state is to look after people who would otherwise fall through the cracks. Admittedly the current system is open to abuse and doesn;t always catch the people who need it - but it's not a free for all. If people have enough money left over to buy electrical gadgets - an incresing "necessity" in our society then so be it. State education should provide a good education to everyone - it has some failings but if you choose to go outside then why should you get support? Stupid mare.

givemeaclue · 02/11/2012 09:22

Not her again, she lost her homc due to feckless money management.

Someone please post link to her previous. Whining for the uninitiated in case they feel sorry for her...

givemeaclue · 02/11/2012 09:23

Would like to see an article where she does a life swap with someone on minimum wage and 4 kids.

Trills · 02/11/2012 09:24

Everyone is always BU to post in AIBU with a salary in the title.

SirBoobAlot · 02/11/2012 09:30

Wow. Just... Wow.

Happylander · 02/11/2012 09:42

Blimey she really is clueless and I suspect her budgeting is extremely poor. How on earth can you lose your home just to keep 2 of your kids in private school is beyond me. Stupid stupid woman.