AIBU re sleepover?

[PumpkinPorridge]

DD went to her friend's 11th birthday sleepover last night. The general consensus that they didn't sleep till 3am.

my dd was desperate to get to sleep before then but was unable to due to the general commotion going on (i just know that she was not one of the late over excitable ones, as it's just not what she's like).

anyway, today was the only day that we had to spend as a family this half term do do a nice day trip. It was totally ruined by dd's inability to cope with doing anything as she was so exhausted.

AIBU to expect the parents to enforce quiet before this time? I expected her to be a bit tired, but have never experienced post sleepover exhaustion to this degree.

AIBU to expect that you shouldnt return people's DC in such a state?? I just wouldnt dream of it as it impacts on everyone's day and i think it's unfair.

Ah so they have form!

I take it they'll be off the invite lift in future!

Dead right - They didn't appear at the 11th birthday sleepover [hgrin]

P.S my DS2 persists in wanting to go to sleepovers even though he has had a fairly crap time at the few he's been to

Op, hope your mom is ok? Can understand your feelings but you know deep down that's how sleepovers go although I certainly don't tolerate jumping or running around the house during the night.

Chatting quietly is ok and can go on moat of the night.

None if my 4 really enjoys them as they like their own rooms and beds lazy buggers us... Dd was at one last night she's 13 and just crashes if she needs too.

Beware the older ones with just lads who paint the drunken mates faces with marker own and post on Internet...