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to think that there is NEVER an acceptable reason to call a 32 year old woman a "young girl?"

793 replies

Hullygully · 20/09/2012 18:13

No I'm not.

I couldn't care less what emotive flannel is flung about.

IT. IS.NOT.ACCEPTABLE.

The end.

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Pagwatch · 21/09/2012 10:40

I am indeed totally street.

SuePurblybilt · 21/09/2012 10:41

Word.

QuickLookBusy · 21/09/2012 10:43

I might do because as I explained, compared to me they are young.

And I will also add I'm from up north. I hear phrases like "young girl" all the bleeding time. It's a regional thing. Language has huge variations in the UK.

Hullygully · 21/09/2012 10:44

Oh the old "regional" argument

yeah right

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TheBossofMe · 21/09/2012 10:45

New thread over here:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/1569703-To-think-that-there-should-be-a-female-equivalent-to-guys-or-chaps

Who said minge???? Go and stand in the corner....

TheBossofMe · 21/09/2012 10:46

And I am totally not street at all.

But I hear vajayjay is used a lot by the yoof in my office.

atacareercrossroads · 21/09/2012 10:47

sorry.......is clunge better?

atacareercrossroads · 21/09/2012 10:48

I used to work with someone who called it, no word of a lie, her "rose"

Rose?? ROSE???

She wasnt happy when I asked if it was because it was thorny and rambling

QuickLookBusy · 21/09/2012 10:49

Hully Oh the old "regional" argument

yeah right

Tis true Hully, whether you choose to believe it or not.

TroublesomeEx · 21/09/2012 10:50

I have never worked anyway at any age with anyone who discussed their 'privates'. Let alone had got a whole new word for it! Shock

TheBossofMe · 21/09/2012 10:51

Rose????

Noooooooo.

Hullygully · 21/09/2012 10:51

I lived about us oop north as you can get and I NEVER EVER heard anyone describe any female over the age of 12 as a YOUNG GIRL

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TheBossofMe · 21/09/2012 10:53

I used to work with someone who called it her doobrey (sp?) She also called anything that she couldn't remember the name of a doobrey, as in "Does anyone know where the doobrey is, you know, the thing to wipe the whiteboard with?".

Very confusing.

TheBossofMe · 21/09/2012 10:54
atacareercrossroads · 21/09/2012 10:59

Folkgirl we once had a conversation about what we called having a crap

I was surprised at the many variations. But Rose-fanny made me cry with laughter.

"Doobrey" Shock

Birdsgottafly · 21/09/2012 11:04

Oh the old "regional" argument

I made the point well up the thread about the reaction of the two police officers being killed as, 'at least they'l know what it is like to lose one of their own'.

Whilst in a pub in Liverpool, inbetween football being shown. That was challenged (a Hillsborough survivour was there).

There is hatred towards the police at the moment.

This killer was being harboured, at the time, the guns were still on the streets.

It was important to use emotive language which would get the wanted reaction from a wife/girlfriend/mum, or a make friend (it is usually the GF who comes forward, though).

These guns would probly pass through Merseryside (a lot of guns from Manchester do). There is a different reaction when women are killed.

It was important that these were seen as young women (girls may have been used wrongly) and someone's daughter.

I don't know if the guns are still 'on the streets', but the aim was to shift the attitude that those handling them are hero's and the criminal world is getting one over on the police.

The first arrest over praise being given for the killer has come from Merseryside.

Many would happily hide these guns and hide those involved, just to be able to say that they have been involved, in police being killed.

TroublesomeEx · 21/09/2012 11:04

I've never discussed that either! I must be have worked with some very prissy women!

Birdsgottafly · 21/09/2012 11:05

I lived about us oop north as you can get and I NEVER EVER heard anyone describe any female over the age of 12 as a YOUNG GIRL

Well i live in Liverpool and it is common.

Kayano · 21/09/2012 11:07

Newcastle it's really common to get young lass.

And young lad too

We are all for equality Wink

Kayano · 21/09/2012 11:10

Didn't Liverpool play a team called young boys this week? Grin

Birdsgottafly · 21/09/2012 11:13

Just this week a mum in my FB friends list has put a picture up of her daughter in Afganistan, in full uniform, with the title, "my little girl on her Birthday".

Perhaps we should have corrected her?

Pagwatch · 21/09/2012 11:13

Yes.
Young Boys are so named as they initially shared funding and a ground with an 'old boys' ground. It's a pun.

Kayano · 21/09/2012 11:15

I was Grin when I saw it

Pagwatch · 21/09/2012 11:17
Grin It sounds a bit weird tbh. 'we are playing Young Boys this weekend' sounds faintly creepy.
seeker · 21/09/2012 11:17

"Just this week a mum in my FB friends list has put a picture up of her daughter in Afganistan, in full uniform, with the title, "my little girl on her Birthday".

Perhaps we should have corrected her?"

Nope. Because as has been said from the beginning of this debate, whqt family and close friends say is up to them.