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to think that there is NEVER an acceptable reason to call a 32 year old woman a "young girl?"

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Hullygully · 20/09/2012 18:13

No I'm not.

I couldn't care less what emotive flannel is flung about.

IT. IS.NOT.ACCEPTABLE.

The end.

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Pagwatch · 21/09/2012 10:32

ThreeOrangeSocksMorgan

See I don't separate them out. I argue about retard because although my son doesn't understand it, it matters. It matters what words we use to define each other.
So, for the sake of myDD I will also argue about 'young girls' because if she is in the work place and heading a team of men (as I did) I want her to be afforded the repect due to a woman who has earnt her right to be there. Not referred to in terms used to describe a six year old.

Hullygully · 21/09/2012 10:32

YOUNG

YOUNG

YOUNG

aaggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

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Hullygully · 21/09/2012 10:33

Yes Paggy, but then you have a brain.

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TroublesomeEx · 21/09/2012 10:34
Hullygully · 21/09/2012 10:34

Isn't that telling, Boss, that there isn't a non-specific generic equivalent of "guy"?

Perhaps pigeonholing us and defining us by looks and age helps keep us down?

Bit like there is no female equivalent of "willy"

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atacareercrossroads · 21/09/2012 10:34

What are you then Hully?

OLD, OLD OLD OLD OLD OLD? Fuck that, be forever young, tis great Grin

Hullygully · 21/09/2012 10:34
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Pagwatch · 21/09/2012 10:34

If I had a brain I could come up with a collective term.
I am guessing 'cunts' is out of the question. It would take reclaiming it to its natural conclusion. 'I am going out tonight with my cunts'

Hullygully · 21/09/2012 10:35

I am IN MY PRIME

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atacareercrossroads · 21/09/2012 10:35

Fanny?

Hullygully · 21/09/2012 10:35

Can I bear to start a thread for a collective name?

You do it Boss, I've got thread-weariness

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TheBossofMe · 21/09/2012 10:35

OK, so Sue has counted out guys because of S'Cliff and Folks because of Bugs and Pam, and I've counted out comrades because of wankerish men at SWP meetings.....

We need a whole new word....

You know, like no-one used the word fanjo before MN, and when I came home in the summer, everyone, I mean everyone, at my old toddler groups was referring to fanjos.

QuickLookBusy · 21/09/2012 10:36

I'm 46, I think anyone under the age of about 30 is young.

I can imagine when I'm in my 60s, I will think anyone under the age of 40 is young.

My DDs are 18 and 21, I call them "my girls". I think they are young because they are when you compared their age to mine.

It's all comparative init.

Hullygully · 21/09/2012 10:36

Fanny isn't used as ubiquitously as willy is it?

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atacareercrossroads · 21/09/2012 10:36

sorry that was in response to the female equivalent of "willy" thing, I dont just randomly shout out body parts Hmm

TheBossofMe · 21/09/2012 10:36

OK< I'll start a new thread - give me 5 mins.

atacareercrossroads · 21/09/2012 10:37

Tuppence?

Hullygully · 21/09/2012 10:37

My DDs are 18 and 21, I call them "my girls"

BUT YOU DON'T CALL THEM "MY YOUNG GIRLS" DO YOU?

BECAUSE THEN EVERYONE WOULD THINK THEY WERE FIVE AND SIX

I have never seen so much disingenuousness in one place.

aaaaggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

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Pagwatch · 21/09/2012 10:37

Grin at atacareercrossroads fanny shouting.

SuePurblybilt · 21/09/2012 10:38

It could be any word at all, it should be something random. If you try to pick something to do with women, it'll be just as loaded.

If only 'people' didn't sound so David Brent.

Hullygully · 21/09/2012 10:38
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Hullygully · 21/09/2012 10:38

yy ARSE! like thingy from remote scottish place vicar programme

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SuePurblybilt · 21/09/2012 10:39

Pag, you sound so MTV saying that
'Hangin' in me Crib, wiv me Cuntz'

atacareercrossroads · 21/09/2012 10:39

MIIIIIIIINGE!!!!!!!

Ive ran out of naughty vagina words now Sad

Hullygully · 21/09/2012 10:40

I am liking cuntz

I have a sneaking fondness

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