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I live in a council flat - do not judge me!

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WhatABloodyMess · 18/09/2012 20:42

DS2 had a friend round for tea yesterday (I brought them from school). When his mum picked him up she seemed rather perturbed that we live in a 3rd floor council flat in a shitty area of town. She was very red faced and flustered (maybe from the walk up the stairs which I have to do with a toddler and shopping at least 3 times a day?) and rather short with me saying 'How on earth did you end up living here'.

Now my DS has been attending his school for 5 years (now in Yr6) in a fairly affluent area as we used to live in this affluent area ourselves! We have never had this lad round before but DS has always played with him and I have always said 'hi' to his mum.

It took a lot of courage to invite a school friend of the DCs round as I am already very upset about living here so this has just made me feel 10 times worse.

This morning the mum completely blanked me and DS said his friend has said he can't come to his house.

AIBU to think that she must think I am scum now or something? The flat is very clean btw and DSs friend was quite happy.

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SlightlyJaded · 18/09/2012 23:05

MrsDV

Should 'bollocks' not have been bollocks?

In order to clarify that it was indeed a fact?

EnjoyGOLDResponsibly · 18/09/2012 23:05

mrs Dv you're quite wrong about putting things in bold. See:

people like PP are twats

trewfact

AmberLeaf · 18/09/2012 23:06

I said in my experience

Then maybe your housekeeping leaves a lot to be desired if all you could smell was stale piss.

cynner · 18/09/2012 23:06

I'm sorry OP. The other mum really is a cunt for making these kinds of judgements. If it were me ( and it has been) most of the hurt is for child. Learning about class differences at a young age is so harsh.

WhatABloodyMess · 18/09/2012 23:07

Flat was infested with fleas when we moved in if that helps PP. Bastard council were even going to charge to fumigate it Shock. I can laugh about it now but that almost did me in.

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thepeoplesprincess · 18/09/2012 23:08

www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.1508364307886.2069499.1197676828&type=3

Would you let your dog live there?

EnjoyGOLDResponsibly · 18/09/2012 23:09

What youre a better woman than me, that would have done me.

My heart is hurting for your DS. I'm so sorry this woman has treated him so poorly.

AmberLeaf · 18/09/2012 23:09

I wouldnt let a dog live in facebook no.

usualsuspect3 · 18/09/2012 23:09

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thepeoplesprincess · 18/09/2012 23:10

Does the link work?

AmberLeaf · 18/09/2012 23:10

Your link doesnt work princess.

EnjoyGOLDResponsibly · 18/09/2012 23:10

Ah FACEBOOK the well known font of all that's factual like.

Go to bed PP.

OrangeandGoldMrsDeVere · 18/09/2012 23:10

I was just trying to think the last time I went to a house that was not HA or council or ex council.

Last week I went to just the one. It was lovely and didnt smell of piss.

But then nor did all the others I went to that were HA, Council or ex council.

I dont know what you have been up to PP but it sounds most unpleasant. Are you sure the whiff isnt following you around?

Not trying to be rude or nuthin but if you keep smelling pee wherever you go....

:)

usualsuspect3 · 18/09/2012 23:11

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NellyJob · 18/09/2012 23:11

maybe PP hasn't been doing her pelvic floor exercises,,,,,

NellyJob · 18/09/2012 23:12

the clue's in the name!

OrangeandGoldMrsDeVere · 18/09/2012 23:12

My house was infested with fleas and it is ex council.
But I blame the bloody cat.

thepeoplesprincess · 18/09/2012 23:12

EnjoyGOLD It's my fucking flat dear. I know it exists

Tempernillo · 18/09/2012 23:13

If she is such a snob and so precious about where her child plays, then why didn't she check your place out before she let her child go there? Horrible woman, of course you should have nothing more to do with her, but what a shame your dcs miss out on playing together because of her horrible attitude. Sad

AmberLeaf · 18/09/2012 23:13

You need to set your picture to public then princess

EnjoyGOLDResponsibly · 18/09/2012 23:13

I'm not your dear. FACT

OrangeandGoldMrsDeVere · 18/09/2012 23:13

Your flat smells of piss?

usualsuspect3 · 18/09/2012 23:13

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WhatABloodyMess · 18/09/2012 23:14

Not ashamed Usual just afraid of other people's judgements (quite rightly it seems). It is clean, flea free now and a place for us to live in, wash, eat and sleep. I know I have not done anything to be ashamed of iykwim. It's quite hard to make sense of. I am still reeling from it tbh.

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