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Would you be upset if a mum said this about your baby?

126 replies

BoysBoysBoysAndMe · 02/05/2012 21:57

Bumped in to a mum from ds1 old nursery today. Not seen her for about six months, maybe more.

We both had our dc2 about the same time.

Other mum looked at my ds2 and the first thing that came out of her mouth was.....

" wow, look at those ears!"

Now, ds2 ears stick out a little (pic on profile), but he's not a human dumbo. I just felt that she was rude and it upset me that she said it.

She didn't back track or make a joke of what she said-that was just what she meant.

Am I being too sensitive?

OP posts:
upahill · 02/05/2012 22:09

Sure his ears stick out but it was rude of her to mention it.
You have cute kids!!

CrumpettyTree · 02/05/2012 22:09

His ears look fine. He is a cutie. Silly woman.

MrsTerryPratchett · 02/05/2012 22:09

Cute baby! DD's ears stick out much more than that I blame stupid jug-eared DH and she is gorgeous! Ignore the U woman.

WhereMyMilk · 02/05/2012 22:11

I think that old MN comment "gosh that sounded really rude, did you mean it to be?" with a sweet smile, would've done the trick!

Cheeky cah!

Your boys a cutie :)

Hmc · 02/05/2012 22:11

How horrible was she!

Not just saying this to cheer you up, but your ds is super cute!

muddychipmunk · 02/05/2012 22:11

Just checked your profile. Your boys are gorgeous. No weird dumbo ears at all Smile

MogTheForgetfulCat · 02/05/2012 22:11

I don't think I'd be upset - I'd just internally sneer at her for clearly having been dragged up and consequently having appalling manners. How rude! And what jezebelle said - I get this all the time with DS3 and it is rather boring. Your DS2 is gorgeous Smile.

pictish · 02/05/2012 22:11

Your wee boy is very cute and his ears look totally ordinary to me! He's lovely!

FreudianSlipper · 02/05/2012 22:12

aww he is so cute

she was stupid forget about it, ds has had several remarks over his ginger hair, and now it is going blondish it is along the lines of lucky for him Hmm

manicinsomniac · 02/05/2012 22:12

It depends

The comment was rude

But, as to whether or not it would upset me, it would depend on how true it was.
If my child did have big ears I would laugh and agree with the woman
If he did not then I would be pissed off

Psychopsilocybin · 02/05/2012 22:13

YANBU, that's very rude and there is nothing wrong with your DS' ears.

2shoes - best typo I've seen all week I nearly swung for my "friend " who commented that my pfb had a large herd" :o

lockets · 02/05/2012 22:13

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BBQJuly · 02/05/2012 22:14

YANBU

QuintessentialShadows · 02/05/2012 22:16

What a gorgeous baby, and all she could think of doing was finding fault with him. How sad, and how exceptionally rude.

UnexpectedItemInShaggingArea · 02/05/2012 22:16

YANBU and my first ever WTAF.

He is beautiful.

Othe mum needs a metaphorical slap with a wet kipper (cannot advocate actual violence)

UnexpectedItemInShaggingArea · 02/05/2012 22:16

*other

Mosman · 02/05/2012 22:17

Blimey that's right up there with the comments I had about a long awaited boy - er no - only to get a ginger one Shock how I didn't punch her I don't know.

MarySA · 02/05/2012 22:20

She was extremely rude. I'd have been furious. Horrible horrible woman!!

maras2 · 02/05/2012 22:20

That baby is absolutely gorgeous.How very dare she.Nasty woman. Mx.

livealoha · 02/05/2012 22:20

Just looked at your photos he's lovely - she's mean - end of.

MorelloCherry · 02/05/2012 22:21

Of course I'd be upset, how bloody rude!

fullofregrets · 02/05/2012 22:23

How rude!
Maybe she's jealous your dc is cuter than hers!

LetsKateWin · 02/05/2012 22:27

Your DS is so cute

Alliwantisaroomsomewhere · 02/05/2012 22:29

your friend, for example, is a twat.

valiumredhead · 02/05/2012 22:30

Stupid woman, they are clearly NOT big ears at all Confused

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