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ooooh. a posh kids vs commoner types dispute!

153 replies

DameHermione · 27/04/2012 18:23

DD does tennis. The courts belong to the posh public school and the tennis club rents them for lessons/games etc as the town doesn't have courts for us commoners.

DD has just phoned me to tell me the posh kids are refusing to leave and the teacher is taking them on.

I hope it doesn't end in fisticuffs.

I know i'm not unreasonable at all but as we all love a private vs state controversy i decided this would be the ideak place for it.

Off you go.......

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ImperialBlether · 27/04/2012 18:36

It often means that your parents think you're posh, too!

SunflowersSmile · 27/04/2012 18:37

If the teacher being ignored they need a ticking off from their school for lack of respect. Any update? I bet they have trundled off court now..

LadySybilDeChocolate · 27/04/2012 18:38

I agree with Sairygamp.

DameHermione · 27/04/2012 18:38

No word. They are either still fighting, lying around bleeding or one side has given in.

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sairygamp · 27/04/2012 18:38

Actually private school does mean often that you are posh. not always, by any means - there are several private schools around our way and we all know exactly which ones are for those parents who think they're 'posh', social spirallers, I believe we called them in Sociology and the ones which are actually used by academics and 'old money.

StillSquiffy · 27/04/2012 18:38

My DCs are at private school, and I've got a jacuzzi in the garden and brown leather sofas, so I am living proof that private does not equate to posh.

Mrsjay · 27/04/2012 18:41

my daughter school is full of kids who thinkt hey are posh and tbh they are a pain in the arse they are not posh just rude and rich , what makes a posh person anyway ?

PJHarpy · 27/04/2012 18:42

I wonder if there will be posh swearing?

'Drat! You imbeciles simply cannot have our court or I'll...I'll...I'll report you to the council!'

banditqueen · 27/04/2012 18:43

This thread is bringing back painful memories of my school (commoners), which sold off our playing field to a nearish posh school. They used to bus in their posh boys for games (probably polo or something incomprehensibly posh like that) and we had to walk sadly round it a few times a day getting from one falling down school building to another. I never once set foot in the field which had huge fencing erected around it - think apartheid wall.

class war people.

SunflowersSmile · 27/04/2012 18:44

I think the problem would be if they had a sense of more 'entitlement' to the tennis court and lacked respect for teacher from 'common' school. [Lot of assumptions I know!].

Maryz · 27/04/2012 18:47

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cheesesarnie · 27/04/2012 18:49

define posh
define commoner.

i'll gladly be called defensive btw

Moln · 27/04/2012 18:50

I think

snotty = poshy

rough = commoner

Not sure about schooling, I'll give it some serious thought and get back to you all.

Mrsjay · 27/04/2012 18:51

oo mary you are a lot cleverer than I am Grin and squillion s is a fab word

SunflowersSmile · 27/04/2012 18:51

Posh - blazer and stuff
Common- polo shirt and sweatshirt

Maryz · 27/04/2012 18:52

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flatpackhamster · 27/04/2012 18:52

Actually, it doesn't.

thebestisyettocome · 27/04/2012 18:52

banditqueen.
I think your anger is misdirected. Blame the crap LEA who sold off your playing field not the people who bought it.

Moln · 27/04/2012 18:55

sunflower, do you mean in genera clothingl or school uniform?

DameHermione · 27/04/2012 18:56

My common kid has a blazer. Its a bit crap though.

AIBU to think my kids can play tennis wherever they fuckin well wants to as they is harder than them posho's and deprived and all that.

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SunflowersSmile · 27/04/2012 18:56

err school uniform!

DameHermione · 27/04/2012 18:57

Although just my kid doing tennis lessons sort of negates my common deprived chippy argument at bit.

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Sparklingbrook · 27/04/2012 18:57

My DS goes to secondary, but wears a blazer and tie. Confused

thebestisyettocome · 27/04/2012 18:57

Urgh.
I hate people bragging about their kids being 'common.'

SunflowersSmile · 27/04/2012 18:58

Does she play violin or recorder op?

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