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to get this site shut down for bullying???

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DidISayThatOutLoud · 18/04/2012 00:33

Absolutely disgusted at the way I have been treated, will be making this as public as I can... came here with a real problem, have been accused of being a liar and basically being bullied... cannot believe this site is still here!

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DidISayThatOutLoud · 18/04/2012 01:09

I have reported it...and comments were being deleted even before I reported... I'm actually feeling pretty stupid now for letting it get to me so much..and still being so bloody shaken up by it... APOLOGIES for all you normal peeps....

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scottishmummy · 18/04/2012 01:10

someone you dont know,won't meet,took pop at you
it really is words on a screen - it has the significance you give it. so here the deal you can focus on rl, daily grind and tasks etc or fret about what some bird with a laptop/iPad wrote about you

I don't mean it lightly, I mean this genuinely in protecting well-being and yourself but it is words on a screen

so switch off and switch off

thatisall · 18/04/2012 01:10

omg, in a really sick, twisted way i desperately want to know what you have to say to have your comments deleted on Mumsnet??? You can say shitty bollocks all day long and no0-one says anything!!

OhdearNigel · 18/04/2012 01:12

"Shitty wanky bollocky twatting cuntflaps" - fine

"Thatisall you are a shitty, wanky, bollocky, twatting cuntflap" - not fine (unless in jest)

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DidISayThatOutLoud · 18/04/2012 01:13

Ha, WORRA- I deserve that for saying I'll get the site shut down... I will hold my hands up to that... but I didn;t deserve the rest, no one does... there should definitely be a warning sign!

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OhdearNigel · 18/04/2012 01:14

The note underneath AIBU this is not a fight club should probably go some way to indicating it's not all hugs and huns on this board Wink

thatisall · 18/04/2012 01:14

did someone call you a cuntflap??? Did they? why I oughtta!!!!

OhdearNigel · 18/04/2012 01:15

You're a cuntflap

Starwisher · 18/04/2012 01:15

Its not enough

The board should be all black and red with dripping blood, and pictures of john prescott naked or something to give a fairer indication of the true horror that awaits

OhdearNigel · 18/04/2012 01:17

Nobody would ever come here then, Star. I would never darken the doors of AIBU if to get here I had to run the gauntlet of seeing Two Jags naked [shudders]

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DidISayThatOutLoud · 18/04/2012 01:17

I can't even remember thatisall... just snide remarks, mostly just implied too... Scottish you are completely right, I give the words the weight... but like I say when you come here because you have to be superwoman for everyone else, it means a lot to be validated I guess, which is completely wrong which is why I say it's the biggest mistake I've made online EVER I think... I have enough to deal with, but for people to tell me I'm making it up, why would I even do that? I thought the whole point of this site was to escape the daily grind, moan about your partners/children then be able to go back and carry on smiling.... hhaha. I am SO foolish!!!

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OhdearNigel · 18/04/2012 01:18

although i think a naice frame in black and blood could be just the thing.

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DidISayThatOutLoud · 18/04/2012 01:18

Hahahaha, ohdear.... thanks for the smile :D

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OhdearNigel · 18/04/2012 01:19

DISTOL, the best way to deal with people trying to rile you on AIBU is either "fuck off" or blanking

thatisall · 18/04/2012 01:20

why did you have to mention John Prescott??? Im eating!!!

OhdearNigel · 18/04/2012 01:20

i know ! in a minute someone will mention Naked Gordon Brown Wink

thatisall · 18/04/2012 01:22

diiiiiiirty

solidgoldbrass · 18/04/2012 01:23

Naked Jeremy Clarkson getting one up the bum from David Cameron...

Don't have nightmares Grin

OhdearNigel · 18/04/2012 01:25

Where is the brain bleach ??? SGB - you are a dirty woman !

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DidISayThatOutLoud · 18/04/2012 01:25

I'm going to be awake all night at this rate... either that or I might steal all these ideas to write a book haha

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Starwisher · 18/04/2012 01:26

Actually i found out something yesterday

But you wont believe me

Ill tell you anyway

John prescott was not bad at all in his younger days

Its true

thatisall · 18/04/2012 01:26

I could go a jeremy clarkson *just saying ;-P
But the thought of David Cameron just makes me think of Black Mirror and THAT poor pig!!

OhdearNigel · 18/04/2012 01:26

I have been thinking "must go to bed" since about midnight. Why am I still on here ??

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DidISayThatOutLoud · 18/04/2012 01:27

Ohdear.....I know this..really I do, but I was feeling pretty damn fragile when I wrote my original post, and to have it from the very beginning of the replies kinda put a big black mar on all the nice things ppl said... believe me, usually my bouncebackability is 100% but if it was that high today I wouldn't have come here in the first place.
PS, shrek and Hammond? xx

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thatisall · 18/04/2012 01:28

Ive been thinking it since the word cuntflaps but Im not making a fuss am i OhDearNigel