Hi everybody,
I would really appreciate your feedback on this. My fiance works full time and is taking a part time degree. He goes to college for one day every other week. A woman he works with is doing the same thing and although they don't see much of each other at work, they spend all day together at college. Since he joined Facebook last September, she 'likes' all his statuses pretty much instantaneously (in one case within 6 seconds), before I even get a chance to. If he puts he has a headache, she 'likes' it immediately, no joke. The only time there is a delay is if he puts something nice or romantic about me and 6 or 7 other people like it first. She put how wonderful his presentation was at college even though he was ill, 'bless ya' and how she went to his desk at work and he wasn't there. She gets him to double check all her coursework. She added him as a friend on messenger when her other friends on there are only her brother and step dad and his other friends are me and a guy who likes bikes. She added no one else from college or work. They met on a Saturday once to study and he was already in the city. She wanted to park at ours and have him walk back to walk her in, even though it is a straight line to walk in. She thought I was at work. The one time I saw them together, she was looking at him with big cow eyes. I know he won't cheat on me, so that's not the issue. It's the fact that he won't acknowledge her crush that annoys me. He's only been on Facebook 6 months, but insists that people put 'like' when someone's status says they're ill to show they've read it. I said it was more usual to put dislike in the comments box. He said it was only my friends who did that and there is no unspoken Facebook etiquette. Am I being unreasonable in thinking she has a crush or is he in denial? Thank you.