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to give my toddler cake, chocolate sweets etc

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dappply · 04/03/2012 14:39

My husband has just said he thinks i give my toddler too much sugary stuff and that he's not sure he should get it at all. I want to double check myself to make sure he hasn't got a point.

DS is nearly three. His diet i think is really good, for instance yesterday he had

breakfast - branflakes with raisins and sunflower seeds, natrual yoghurt and chopped up pear and blueberries. Diluted orange juice and water.

mid morning - couple of oat cakes, grapes and strawberries.

lunch - bowl of homemade lentil and veg soup, grated carrot, courgette, cheese on a piece of wholemeal toast.

dinner - courgette, pepper, onion and mushroom omlette with cheese and bread and butter. raspberries and natural yoghurt.

and that's pretty normal really.

this week treat wise he had a chuppa chup lolly last sunday, a quarter of a twix on wednesday, a chocolate biscuit at playgroup of friday and a quarter of a cupcake and a chuppa chup today. DH thinks this is too much sweet stuff in a week.

My attitude was that i didn't want to refuse him sweet stuff as a rule, so as not to make it forbidden fruit, just to make sure when he does have it that it's not much, and that it's after meals. and to make sure he's not getting loads of hidden sugar in his diet, like in cereal and stuff, and to homemake the vast majority of things.

Am i being unreasonable? i can't find any guidelines anywhere

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MrsMagnolia · 04/03/2012 14:43

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ChooChooWowWow · 04/03/2012 14:53

Ha ha ha ha, you are not serious.

Mine are lucky if they a slice of toast and a banana slung their way for breakfast.

MissVerinder · 04/03/2012 14:54

Quick, somebody call The Social Grin

Memoo · 04/03/2012 14:55

Ha fecking ha.

dappply · 04/03/2012 14:55

Why is that a trollish jokey thing to ask? I'm confused!

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Spookey80 · 04/03/2012 14:56

All I can say is wow!!

MrsBradleyCooper · 04/03/2012 14:57

So far this weekend my ds has had two packets of chocolate buttons, chocolate raisins, Haribo sweets and a kinder egg.

He has also had a sausage sandwich and a couple of packets of crisps.

What would your DH think of me Shock

knowitallstrikesagain · 04/03/2012 14:57

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lashingsofbingeinghere · 04/03/2012 14:57

Doesn't sound a lot of sugar to me.

EirikurNoromaour · 04/03/2012 14:58

Your child eats a highly unusually healthy varied diet and that amount of sugar is not very much on the whole.

MrsBradleyCooper · 04/03/2012 14:58

By the way that is in addition to normal meals - not his sole source of food Grin

TheSinglePringle · 04/03/2012 14:59

My son as chuppa chup lolly for breakfast, quarter of a cake for lunch and for dinner a sausage roll. He might have fruit as a treat now and again but I don't want him too healthy

AKissIsNotAContract · 04/03/2012 15:00

Is it his teeth you are worried about? Raisins and grapes are often culprits for decay. I'd say it was a bit too much sugar in the diet but I'm sure everyone else will disagree!

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MilkNoSugarAndAShotofWhisky · 04/03/2012 15:02

I'd say why is he having lollipops?!

yousankmybattleship · 04/03/2012 15:06

hahahahahaha! If true, that would be one windy child and your food bill would be into the thousands.

DoMeDon · 04/03/2012 15:06

It sounds like he has very little in the way of sweets and treats to me.

noblegiraffe · 04/03/2012 15:08

Is a quarter of a twix a quarter of a single twix or a half of a single twix?

larks35 · 04/03/2012 15:08

With such a healthy diet otherwise, why give him what is basically a solid lump of sugar to suck on? Seems odd to me. Biccys and a bit of chocolate I can understand but lollies?

Hugely impressed with his diet otherwise! I wish my DS would eat meals like that, he lives on fishfingers isn't very adventurous Sad.

avoidinglibelaction · 04/03/2012 15:19

Sorry dappply NYANBU - the troll question was because you are really not being unreasonable and was wondering why you might think you were in any way - but for evidence against DH I can see.
MY lot get laods more crap than that and they are happy healthy skinny little runts with good teeth - so don't worry a good diet with a few treats is a great way to go - banning anything will make it too desirable.

HandMini · 04/03/2012 15:29

Wow, his daily diet sounds amazing. I give my baby treats when I have a treat, ie at weekends, a but of choc / spoon of ice cream.

StealthPolarBear · 04/03/2012 15:30

I really don't like those boiled sweet things. Chocolate and haribo type sweets are down in one for my 2, whereas poppies work their tooth rotting magic for 20 mins or so. That said, if my dcs' diet was even a quarter as good as what you describe, I'd be ecstatic!

tardisjumper · 04/03/2012 15:34

NO YANBU and I understnad why youasked the question. @Reality did a thread where she listed what she gave her mindees, which wasn't entirly dismmilar to yours, though had less veg and everyone went, WHY DO YOU GIVE THEM CHOCOLATE.

That's not expensive either, DP and I eat like that and we can eat for £15 a week each.

Teaandcakeplease · 04/03/2012 15:35

YANBU sounds like a great diet Envy

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