First off, I really do not wish to trivialise the experiences of "proper" prostitutes - this is a light hearted thread.
Right. Namechanger, for obvious reasons.
DH is bi, which I have known forever, I am too, no big deal. We are securely married so it isn't an issue.
A few nights ago, we were talking about exes. He told me about a few girlfriends, then asked me what exactly constituted a relationship in my eyes. I said somebody who you would introduce to your friends as a boyfriend/girlfriend, so he asked whether it counted if you spent lots of time together, shagged regularly, but didn't go public. I asked for more details in order to make my judgement.
First off, he told me about a couple of kind of boyfriends (tbh I think they were more friends with benefits as it was just sex and hanging out - no actual feelings etc) and then he told me about another, but then corrected himself, because he "only did it to fill the fridge and get drinks and drugs"
Apparently, when he was at uni, two older men used to have him round to their house for threesomes etc, and in return would buy him drinks all night and give him food for the week, fags, drugs etc (only the usual recreational ones). Being a student, he thought it was great.
I pointed out that he was technically a prostitute, and he denied it as they didn't actually give him cash.
He also used to apparently trade sexual acts (with men and women, usually a lot older - he said he would have never gone near them normally) for stories when he was briefly a journalist.
He doesn't seem bothered by it at all, btw, he was really matter of fact about the whole thing - it was all over a decade ago now. He actually regrets that he turned down doing gay porn.
So, what do we think? Is the journalism thing just par for the course?
(sexual health is fine, btw, all tested etc)