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Shit shit shit....Picked up wedding dress today and I think I've got it so wrong!

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Antalya1 · 18/02/2012 23:15

Oh god, I picked up my wedding dress today, it's costs a shed load and I think that I've got so wrong......, to late to change it now, I'm getting marired in 5 weeks, I just looked at it and thought why on earth didn't I go for somthing simplier...please tell me that I'm not the only one who's been in this position??? This is it................

www.pronovias.us/wedding-gown/bering2012.html

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ScatterChasse · 18/02/2012 23:33

No, it's gorgeous and you'll look absolutely lovely.

If it wasn't the dress you were having jitters about it would be something else! The cake, the flowers, the venue (hopefully not the groom Grin).

You'll look absolutely beautiful in it Smile

browneyesblue · 18/02/2012 23:34

It's so beautiful - can't help but think this is a stealth boast...

Grin
McPie · 18/02/2012 23:34

I like it a lot and Im sure you will look wonderful in it. When I win the jackpot and do the revows in a white dress thats the type I would go for.

Conflugenglugen · 18/02/2012 23:39

Oh, I think it's lovely! Nope. Can't see any problem at all with it.

Ample · 18/02/2012 23:40

Pre-wedding jitters?
I like it. There is a lot of detail in the dress but that's the design of the dress.

Keep jewellery/accessories to a bare minimum and let you and your gown shine Smile

It's quite beautiful. You will look fabulous.

iliketea · 18/02/2012 23:41

WOW! It's absolutely beautiful. Smile

AlbertoFrog · 18/02/2012 23:41

I rarely see wedding dresses I like. Mine was very simple.

But I have to say that is stunning.

Congratulations.

OkayGrrl · 18/02/2012 23:44

That dress is beautiful, one of best I've seen in a long time.

hathorinareddress · 18/02/2012 23:45

I like that dress a lot. You will look beautiful.

slowestwildebeast · 18/02/2012 23:48

I much prefer it to many that I have seen, I think it's nice to have something a bit different.

I know many people will disagree but I'm so bored of seeing the typical strapless foofy gowns that everyone appears to wear, which in my opinion all look the same and are usually unflattering on many shapes. At least this is memorable :)

I love it.
Well done and I hope you enjoy your day.

savoycabbage · 18/02/2012 23:48

I think that is one of the most beautiful wedding dresses I have ever seen.

QuintessentialyHollow · 18/02/2012 23:49

It is a beautiful dress. Can you go to the gym and do cardiovascular exercise for 45 minutes 6 times a week from now on? (I dont mean to be rude, but if you feel you are too big to carry off such a dress, slimming down wont hurt, it might really help your confidence)

catyloopylou · 18/02/2012 23:49

It's beautiful.

I had a pronovias dress when I got married a few years ago and the quality of the lace is amazing, and the shaping is so flattering that they look stunning whatever age and size.

I'm now tempted to get mine out of the box to sit and stroke admire it.

Busyoldfool · 18/02/2012 23:51

absolutely beautiful.

Kayzr · 18/02/2012 23:51

It's gorgeous. I love it and I bet you'll look stunning!! Grin

McHappyPants2012 · 18/02/2012 23:52

I felt the same, but when I look at my wedding picture my dress was stunning and I looked fantastic.

Have a wonderful day, and I bet you will look amazing

Gumby · 18/02/2012 23:52

Love this thread

It's de rigeur to say how fab dress is Grin

caramelwaffle · 18/02/2012 23:53

It is lovely.

Sarcalogos · 18/02/2012 23:55

Don't do massive exercise in next 5 weeks - the alterations will cost a fortune.

Size 14 in a wedding dress is like size 12 in real life.

They are designed to make fatter girls than you look waif like.

It is gorgeous and you will be too!

Sleep now, I didnt sleep for weeks before mine...

heyannie · 18/02/2012 23:55

It's quite gorgeous and totally says "spring wedding"

chinam · 19/02/2012 00:00

Your dress is stunning. Another vote for the stealth boast Grin Congratulations

roadkillbunny · 19/02/2012 00:03

I love that dress and I certainly wouldn't worry about your size and age! I love the cut and the tulle skirt will flatter your figure, get yourself some lovely sexy but functional underwear, wear your hair up and I would probably go without a veil but a veil would work with the dress. You are going to look fabulous and as others have said it is only natural to have jitters this close to the wedding.
As for the venue, why shouldn't you have a fabulous dress just because it is a civil ceremony? I got married at a golf club resort (nicer then it sounds when you write it like that but don't know how else to describe it as is not a hotel), service and reception in the same place, very low key small affair with 50 of our closest family and friends, no sit down meal just a late afternoon ceremony and a buffet meal but the one thing I let myself have was the big dress, I still get my dress out from time to time just to look at it and wish I could wear it again, at the start I had wanted to go for a very plain dress with no veil but ended up with a dress with lots of intricate detail and a cathedral length veil. I did have my moments of wobbles with the dress, not that I didn't love the dress but that for the location and size of the wedding it was OTT but I felt every inch the bride and just didn't ever want to take off that dress, as soon as I entered the ceremony room, saw my guests, my bridesmaid dd and my handsome groom all the worries and stresses disappeared. I hope you have a fabulous day, one thing is for sure, you will look amazing and your dh to be will not be able to take his eyes off you!

MrsTimeOut · 19/02/2012 00:03

It is absoluety stunning. There are so many beautiful dresses it can be hard to know which one is right for you. WOW on this one!

yellowraincoat · 19/02/2012 00:04

It is gorgeous, I love it. It's a lovely dress.

Congrats!

Showmethemhappyfeet · 19/02/2012 00:08

That dress is beautiful! Not 'too much' at all, i love it!