AIBU to think WTF, regarding a friends FB status

[lolaflores]

A friend of mine, who I love the bones of, recently updated her FB. In bed with DD, her boyfriend and myself, having a snuggle, spooning for 3.

This is all kinds of wrong surely? She is a wonderful person, but seems a little over involved with DD who is 18. Not that that makes much difference. Totally weirded out by it to be honest. Its more than TMI isn't though

Yuck.

Hope he wasn't spooning the mother.

I just read the part about the BF. I think I've changed my mind.

She clearly just meant they were having a big snuggly cuddle, YABU (and have a dirty mind )

I always thought spooning was traditionally a cuddle with one facing the other way, only recently has it been appropriated by the Joy Of Sex.

For me though its odd, but not creepy.

I find it a bit odd. I can't imagine ever wanting to get into bed and cuddle with my DS and his girlfriend if and when he has one.

Neither can I imagine my mum getting into bed for 'spooning' with me and DH.

And as for putting it on FB, weird imo.

ARGHH THE BOYFRIEND WAS THERE i read it as the mums boyfriend maybe step dad , no thats wrong wrong wrong !

I cant imagine jumping in for a cuddle with my 18yr old dd and her boyfriend I dont even sit on the couch with them ,

i a m sure it must have been a "hijack" as suggested earlier

I don't even cuddle friends, so it is very weird and U to me, but whatever floats your boat, going to be a bit awkward when they split up.

Wrongity-wrong.

Wrong on lots of levels!

Wrong from this camp too. Creepy as well.

Gah, I love PIL's but snuggling in a bed with them?

Thanks all. Myself am a big fan of a cuddle fest with tout famille in bed. excluding DD's boyfriend. No freaking way. He smells anyway. I didn't comment on her FB, but what do you say

Ask her if she's auditioning for the Jerry Springer special "my mom has a best mate complex which has result in her being unable to appreciate boundaries"

that he smells anyway. They all do, don't they? teenagers, that is.

spooning is properly a cuddle where you both face the same way.

it is weird that it is DD's BF and DD and friend, though.
it wouldn't be so weird if it were friend's BF and friend and DD

best mate complex that is the nail on the head there. Parenting as a nasty word

My friends mum was like that flora, she told me all about oral sex when I was 12 and used to have very experimental and noisy sex when we were at my friends house, she also used to try and make us cuddle with her on a Sunday morning, with her boyfriend, who was only 10 years older than us...

My poor friend was mortified for all of her teens.

She always said she wanted a mum not a mate.

But her mum had serious problems of her own that I now understand drove her behaviours.

is it about trying to be young? Avoiding growing up

With her she had been abused by her dad all through her childhood until she got married, so she had no idea of what a parent was, about what was appropriate, or about when it was appropriate, so she would come downstairs and tell us how many times she came, or the unforgettable occasion where she discussed lubrication brands whilst in her knickers.

She has never accepted her age, and she is in her 60's now, she still picks up young men, still has risky sex, still takes drugs...

Some people are too broken to fix

But your friend just sounds like one of those mums who are trying to hang into their child, their youth, and perhaps their friendship with their child because they don't want to become redundant.

Which is sad in its own way

eeeuuuurgh.

wonder if anyone will comment on the status, or if there will just be an awkward silence?

No spooning.

We all have rotten colds/sore throats and are squashed on a sofa under a duvet. We always watch the rugby with them, no illness will stand in the way, but we need duvets and lemsip. There is also a 4yo and a baby under the blankets.

FIL sits on the floor and surreptitiously tickles feet when we're sucked into the game. He's a card isn't he?

It is weird op but not wtf weird.

It is weird. Maybe swhe was exaggerating, for the factor? Each to their own..