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AIBU in thinking that this gentleman should win The Parenting Award?

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StealthPenguin · 11/02/2012 08:11

This video is eight minutes long, so for those that don't have time to watch it, I shall summarize.

Last year, this gentleman, Tommy Jordan, warned his daughter of the consequences if she were to do something stupid and inappropriate on Facebook. At the beginning of this month he was fixing her laptop (and installing $130 worth of software) when he managed to find a post on her Facebook wall that claimed her life was unfair, that she's a slave, and her "lazy-ass parents" make her "do shit for them". Not only this, but she goes on to exaggerate her chores list and curses to high heaven. She then deliberately hid it via her privacy settings so that her parents couldn't see it on her Facebook wall. She did this incorrectly, and the post showed up while Mr. Jordan was fixing her laptop.

He decided to read out this "letter to my parents", and he then addressed some of the issues on it. Firstly, that she refuses to get a part-time job, and only applied to one job because he handed her the application and watched her fill it out. Secondly, that her chores list is not that large. Thirdly, that she expects a new camera, new battery for her laptop, new phone and software upgrades whenever she needs it. She also referred to a woman who couldn't afford to pay Mr. Jordan in conventional terms as their "cleaning lady".

After 6 minutes of discussing how wrong she is, how insulting and upsetting and disrespectful she is being, and how she was warned of the consequences, he proceeds to put eight rounds of ammunition into her laptop. Seven for him, and one on behalf of her mother.

Not only does she now not have a laptop, but she won't get one until she pays for it herself. She also owes him for the ammunition that he used.

Now, I don't know about you, but I think that's perfect. I would never be so disrespectful to my parents, and if I were then I'd probably suffer a similar punishment!

He has explained that his reasons for doing it are a) to teach her of the value of a dollar. If she has everything handed to her, she'll just assume that her parents are going to bankroll her. b) to teach her that what is said on the internet will last a lifetime, if not a good few years. So by being so horrible on a public forum she has humiliated herself and her family. c) That his word is to be taken as gospel, and that there are consequences to her actions.

I think he's very sensible to have done that - it's a dramatic and drastic action, but in his own words "sometimes with teenagers you have to be dramatic".

What do you all think?

OP posts:
pasanda · 20/01/2016 13:17

nanna or not.... you're in the wrong place!!

Deal with it!!

YakTriangle · 20/01/2016 13:18

If you start your own thread in the potty training section, you'll get better and less sarcastic replies. Replying to an old thread about a man shooting a laptop isn't going to work terribly well.

gmor6787 · 20/01/2016 13:32

I didn't realise I was on an old thread I thought I was starting a new one. My mistake. Won't be making it again.

gmor6787 · 20/01/2016 13:36

Pasanda. Are you like that with everyone.

Elendon · 20/01/2016 13:51

I think the daughter is right. Obviously shored up by her cockwomble father's actions.

He's controlling, aggressive, dangerous and has a disrespectful attitude to anyone who doesn't respect him.

Would anyone like to work with this man?

Elendon · 20/01/2016 13:52

Old thread. Sorry Blush

Thepinkcricket · 20/01/2016 13:54

R

Janeymoo50 · 20/01/2016 14:03

He sounds a total prick, who shoots a laptop!!! She sounds a brat. Both as bad as each other.

pasanda · 20/01/2016 14:10

Nope

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