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AIBU?

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To think it is about time to stop being a Christian country.

872 replies

ShagOBite · 10/02/2012 22:15

On the council prayers debate, lots of people have said "but we're a Christian country". Why are we? Should we be? How do we go about changing this? It seems so inappropriate and unnecessary in this day and age.

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PopcornBiscuit · 21/02/2012 17:14

Non-Christians are more than welcome to attend church any time you like, carol singing or not. Even better is if you try more than one type of church, as alongside those you find dreadful (we all have those) you might even find one you think isn't too bad Wink We might even give you a cup of Brew (but obviously carol singing is more popular because you get free Wine :o)

MrsTerryPratchett · 21/02/2012 17:25

Everyone, PopcornBiscuit is trying to convert me! Help help. Grin

PopcornBiscuit · 21/02/2012 17:27

You're all asking for it :o Seriously though, why on earth would RD at a carol service send anyone running for the hills? I'd love it if he turned up at our place, would liven things up for sure :o

notfluffyatall · 21/02/2012 18:43

The most aggressive, if that's what you'd call him, I prefer brutally honest, atheist you'd find is the late Christopher Hitchens. I miss him so Sad

MrsTerryPratchett · 21/02/2012 19:25

His picture was linked waaay upthread.

Himalaya · 21/02/2012 19:25

Another atheist who likes carols here Grin

It is why I wouldn't go for a really hardcore version of secularism with no religious symbols allowed at all, as in US schools where you can only sing Frosty The Snowman etc...

I think it should be up to schools and their communities to decide which traditions they want to draw on, not for the church to impose it, or the state to ban it.

Technodad · 21/02/2012 19:28

I like carols.

MrsTerryPratchett · 21/02/2012 19:33

This has all got a bit nice and agreement heavy. So, we're keeping the carols. Does anyone disagree?

Technodad · 21/02/2012 19:46

Can we change some of the lyrics? Some of them are a bit lame Smile

notfluffyatall · 21/02/2012 19:47

Nope sorry, I disagree Grin

Not in schools, no way, just as nonsensical as praying some of them, if you want them go to church.

Technodad · 21/02/2012 19:51

I agree you can't do it at schools I thought the question was about voluntary carol singing not a forced thing.

GrimmaTheNome · 21/02/2012 19:59

Oh, I'd keep carols, along with nativity plays as cultural tradition.

Its the creator god hymns that bug me; maybe I'd let them keep All Things Bright and Beautiful if they'd balance it with the (I usually just link the lyrics... you might not want to watch this if you've just eaten)

Technodad · 21/02/2012 20:44

I have never got through the line about "the purple headed mountain" without giggling like a schoolboy - that one is a keeper!

Himalaya · 21/02/2012 22:02

I agree carols, nativity, trees, Santa etc... all ok as a common tradition. Doesn't mean you have to do nativity every year, but no harm doing it once in a while, or having Eid parties at school.

Most songs in school are nonsensical notfluffy - broadbeans sleeping in their blankety beds Grin

The song I hate is that one about Jesus is the Water of LIfe. There is no need for that. But Xmas carols, cards, trees are culture.

jumjum · 21/02/2012 22:37

I am ever so grateful to our great leaders in the N.S.S for their indulgent bounty in allowing us to retain at least some carols and the occasional nativity play - of course only for cultural reasons and maybe not every year. Any chance the great NSS leaders would possibly consider the odd prayer in public and that maybe the schools might keep their chrisitan names - perhaps of course only every second one. We promise to double our efforts on the tractor production line.

Snorbs · 21/02/2012 22:59

You're welcome jumjum. We'll even throw in permission to wear a cross around your neck, provided it doesn't dangle into the production line conveyor belt. But don't forget to tighten the left-hand thrunging sprockets. You know what happened last time you forgot.

notfluffyatall · 21/02/2012 23:11

No crosses on duty, I'm objecting!

citytovillage · 21/02/2012 23:21

Yes YABU. This is a Christian country - that isn't inappropriate. In fact I find your views of Christianity disrespectful. When I go overseas I respect the religion of the land and think people here should do the same.

citytovillage · 21/02/2012 23:23

I think it is ridiculous when you hear Christmas being called anything other than that. In schools, if there are enough children who follow different religions, celebrate their festivals too and respect different religions.

solidgoldbrass · 22/02/2012 00:02

Religion doesn't merit respect; it's just another opinion (that there is some or other supernatural being that can't be seen but is there, reeeeaaalllly...). That doesn't mean people should be prevented from engaging in religious activity, just that other people are under no obligation to listen to them or take them seriously when they are doing so. Of course you have a right to believe in your gods, the same as you have a right to read your horoscope, support a football team or wear your pants over your trousers if you want to. But other people have the right to ignore you, go about their business without being interrupted or inconvenienced by you, and indeed to laugh at you or disagree with what you believe.

Himalaya · 22/02/2012 00:17

Jumjum -

Schools can keep whatever name they and their governors like.

I had my kids at St Thomas's Hospital. They didn't check whether I went to church before they let me in, and they didn't expect me to pray.

Look if schools and parents and teachers and kids all want to pray so badly the law, ofsted and all that wouldn't be needed to enforce it.

Why not let schools and parents decide for themselves what they want to do?

I suspect the NSS is two blokes and a photocopier. I doubt it quite lives up to your fantasies.

MrsTerryPratchett · 22/02/2012 00:50

When I go to other countries I respect their religions and traditions too. However, I was born and brought up in the UK so unlike Morocco or Thailand, I get a say in things.

Pornyissue · 22/02/2012 00:55

Pah, Christian country?
It barely effects most people's day to day life, no idea why people get so angsty about it.

Non issue.

MrsTerryPratchett · 22/02/2012 02:43

BTW notfluffyatall you really are not fluffy AT ALL. Good for you Thanks

HillyWallaby · 22/02/2012 04:08

'If there are more of Islam faith than any other in the UK then it is going to become the dominant culture and probably the dominant religion'

No. that is not correct. It may, (in fact quite probably will, unless there is a truly massive resurgence in Christian practising and church attending) eventually become the dominant religion, but it is highly highly unlikely to ever become the dominant culture. Why? Because there are many, many more millions of us in the UK who do not practice a religion either way, so whilst the influence of Islam may well grow exponentially due to the high birth rate among more recent Muslim immigrants as well as a generally higher birth rate among the long-settled Muslim population, it will not take over to the point where it is part of our cultural collective psyche.

Not unless 50 million heathens all stop having children at all, or bugger off to live somewhere else.

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