seriously dont know why you posted on mn for any kind of support
fwiw - fb is by its very nature non taxing in the brain department. its where people turn into 'huns' and post silly things. this is it's context.
in that context therefore i don't really think your psot would be anything i would even notice - never mind comment on
i certainly wouldnt call anyone who felt it within their power to be insulting and mean - a friend.
the mature thing to do would be to pick up the phone, Facebook trivialises good friendships and shows the worst side of people.
if you have the courage to pick up the phone, keep calm and state that you felt that she was unecessarily mean and that you don't think you want to have any kind of relationship with someone who felt it was ok to be mean and then wish her happiness and hang up.
but...in real life.
i had a long term friend of 15 years. i took in her young children when her ex beat her unconcious. we have been out dancing and clubbing and drinking, we have had laughs and good times. i travelled frequently the 300 miles to see my extended family and she was part of that, i made time to go out with her and see her becuase i loved her company. most recently i travelled the 300 miles to go to her beautiful daughters wedding. they made me part of the wedding party and i was honoured and thrilled
on facebook she would contact me when drunk. and only when drunk. no phone calls or texts becuase her phone was often cut off and she had a new moby number frequently so - just drunk fbing. so i asked her to contact me sober. i wasn't nasty about it - just said - lets talk when your sober.
she then send me a post about my children - just the most bone deep horrible things to say to anyone - let alone a friend.
and that is that. a sad sad ending to a relationship becuase facebook is in the essence of it moronic.
it doesn't have to make you a moron though if you dont let it