ffs!
To set the scene, I cook, a lot, some of it for profit, cooking dinner parties for people. I have never, ever had a complaint and have lots of repeat business. I especially love cooking for my friends, we all chip in, they challenge me to make something tricky, it is something we have done for about 20 years as it saves us lots of money on restaurant bills.
One friend, who is turning 40, has asked me to cook a Thai meal for our group of friends, we have been good friends since 11, holidayed together, are godparents for each others kids, executors for each others parents wills etc etc. Siblings rather than mates really and it is a lovely thing.
One of the group has a much older girlfriend, she never, ever comes out if any of the ones who have kids is there (her own, totally understandable self protection reasons)
But she says that she is coming to this meal, which tbh would be nice as she is really good fun and my friend loves her dearly. I am going to cook for 12, there are 3 meat, 3 fish, 3 vegetarian dishes plus rice on the menu which has been published to everyone to make sure the favourites are on there. One of the reasons for selecting Thai is that it is something we all like, the veg dishes selected are ones she orders when out.
But I now have a message, via someone else in the group that she will bring her own food, so I don't have to make a special effort for her. Apart from not eating meat or fish she has no allergies we know about.
AIBU to be insulted? AIBUto think she should eat what I cook? AIBU to bother with the silly cow at all as she probably won't turn up anyway? AIBU to think she is just fucking rude?!?!?!