I'm 9 months pregnant due on wednesday, DP broke 2 of his fingers yesterday in spectacular fashion A&E doc said 'how on earth did you manage that' break looks like an orange peel curved round it's his right hand so can't do much for himself, was at hospital from 7.30 this morning getting it fixed and xrays, he'll be off work for at least 3 weeks with a new baby and no bloody right hand plus works on bonus so money will be basic next month. I have spent the rest of the afternoon til now helping take care of my grandad who has weeks to live and is very very ill with cancer been helping my granmother clean his shit from the bed/sofa/bathroom since he has the runs and is unable to get to the loo alone infact won't even try just shits his pull ups. finally got home and need to make poor DP some decent food am shattered totally shattered mentally emotionally and physically.
My mum was supposed to be babysitting my niece for the night as she does evey weekend but since my granfather is so ill and we have relatives coming from USA tomorrow she has had to cancel. My sisters now on the phone asking me to babysit over night... my reaction was eh no to which i was told i was being selfish i'm just sitting at home anyway!! The reason sister NEEDS a babysitter tonight is because she's going round her friends with a bottle and she's already bought the bottle plus she's really hung over from last night and can't cope with a 4 yr old!!!!!!
First what happens if i go into labour during the night? second i can hardly move about i'm so huge and sore with SPD DP has no right hand so thats not helpful, I've had a shocking week trying to take care of grandad and gran running up and down to them i just want to sit on my sofa and watch mindless TV tonight i don't care if it's selfish but i'm done for the week and i refuse to feel bad for not babysitting so she can go on the piss!! GRRRRR
feel better now. Tell me IBU at your own risk lol