I met a man working at a local shop, he seemed nice and we got talking, we arranged a date and although we had never met out of this shop, even from the start he was full on. We had gone bowling, which I'm crap at, my first bowl was a gutter ball which he felt he had console me with a kiss and a cuddle, which I felt was a bit too forward for a first date.. this happened for every good and every bad bowl, which made for a very uncomfortable evening as I'm not really an outwardly touchy feely person, but I tried to not let it bother me, because I do like it when I am close to someone I like them to be affectionate and didn't want to make him not be like that if things went any further..
The next time I saw him, he came over to mine to watch a film with me, he brought with him a bottle of coke, with vodka poured in (this man is almost 30) and we cuddled up on the sofa. I don't mind this, but he has his arm around me, holding both of my hands, had his knee pushed against mine, and his cheek pressed up against my cheek! I felt like a magnet being cuddled by iron filings!! He readjusted to me every time i tried to get a bit more space, he was so close we were actually breathing each others air!
Every time I turned to look at him he was gazing at me like THIS
Every now and then he would kiss me, turning it into a snog which he pressed his face into mine so much I couldn't even kiss him back if I wanted to, and when I moved my head back he came with me until I was completely against the sofa, so I put my hand on his neck and tried to gently push him away, instead of taking the hint he just carried on pushing. I think if I had been standing up I would have been tempted to knee him in the balls!
When the film finished it was silent, so I put another on, when that one finished I tried to make conversation, I just got dead end answers.
at 00.40ish the other night I was in bed and got a text from him saying he was outside, I stayed quiet and pretended I was asleep. The next night he did it again, but I was in the front of the house and he could clearly see I was up, I had just got out of the shower and was toweled up, I told him that he couldn't come in because I'd just got out the shower, but when I opened the door he just came in.. kept hugging and kissing me at the door until he realised I wasn't going to invite him in further then he went.
The other night I was at an evening course, whist there I got a series of texts from him, the brief conversation went
Him "I thought you were on your course"
Me "I'm there now"
Him "Your car has just driven past me"
Me "I hope not otherwise I can't get home, lol"
Him "Well it looked like it, sorry I asked"
Me "I just checked, it's outside, lol"
Him "ok cool"
(My car is quite recognisable, I don't see how he could have got it mixed up)
He wanted to come here tonight, so I made an excuse, I asked him what he was up to, he responded with "nothing now"
I have ignored any calls, texts, pokes and indirect facebook status's since but I'm a bit worried he's going to turn up at my house at some point..
Your thoughts on this strange man please, he is too much isn't he!