Rational, where the hell have i expressed 'outrage??
In my unit, and in my role as a midwife, I care for women undergoing TOP at various gestations, usually around 20 wks, when these women have had the anomaly scan. Though sometimes earlier and sometimes 24-28 wk . Not usually later than that though as most women who decide to terminate want it over as soon as possible, understandably.
I am not suggesting that women who have a 'social' TOP are treated differently. and by social I mean a woman who is not aborting because her baby is handicapped. Of course these women should be treated in the exact same caring and compassionate way. What i am saying it is not my role as a MIDWIFE.
As for what abnormalites are acceptable reasons to abort then that is not my decision. This is discussed with the doctor who decides whether the baby is compatible with life, or will have a poor quality of life due to an abnormailty.
On a personal level I would not have a TOP myself. That is not to say i don't believe other women should not either. I totally understand womens reasons for TOP and support women who find themselves in this situation.
Again, i will say it is part of my role to care for women who terminate for medical reasons, not social. Just as it is not a gyneacology nurses job to deliver a full term baby.
I don't think some people know the difference between nurse and midwife.