AIBU to want to tell her that she is a selfish brat?

[KittyFane]

I have a mum friend who is getting on my nerves.
Whenever anything needs doing - collecting a takeaway, dry cleaning, ironing, gardening, painting a room, taking and collecting DC from activities etc etc she says dismissively "oh, I'll get DH to do it" or "DH will do that".
I'm starting to think she does nothing but order him around.
I'm half jealous (that he does whatever she wants him to do) and half disgusted with her spoilt ways.
I feel a bit unreasonable to even have an opinion about it because it's their life. So am I ? :) !

Just to add, they have 2 DC, he works FT, she PT.

None of your business.

Utterly and totally unreasonable...in about every way!!

ooh I think you might know me

Bet she is overweight too. And frigid.

YABU

My dh often does those things. So much so the restaurant where we get our chinese take away from note down what dates I collect the takeaway hehe. Part of it is because I have difficulty driving at night and get tired easily.

Don't let it stress you out too much

:o @ Pooka! Thought maybe I was! I'll tell her that too when she's prattling on about her DH!

I might say to my Dad that DH will pick DD up or drop him off somewhere, but that's because I don't drive and I know full well DH won't mind doing it.

Nothing to do with me ordering him about

But when I say what I've done to DH, I'll ask him if he wouldn't mind picking up/dropping off.

You have no idea what's going on behind closed doors, and to be brutally honest, it's nowt to do with you!

You can tell her she's a selfish brat, but be prepared for a gob full of fist

Oh me to-I don´t paint or drive.

I do garden though-but only easy light stuff.

Are you my friend?

I smell jealousy.......

Stewie I ask myself that too. I really don't like her so soon to be ex 'friend'. Mutually agreeable conclusion probably.

Have you no business of your own to worry about?

You sound charming Kitty

Why does it bother you?!!

It's not anyone else's business, surely you have no idea how her dh feels about it?

I find it's better to let other couples get on with things their way and to not get involved.

I have an opinion on the way a person talks about their DH.
My DH does all of the above but I don't ever say 'I'll get DH to do it' as if he's there to serve me.
AIBU? Obviously yes! :)

She is his problem.... Poor fella!

bluddy I am irritated that she tells me about all the things she gets him to do. She tells me and I listen.
I obviously don't like her much so we shouldn't be friends.

Olympia yes :o

I like your acceptance of "unreasonability" kittyfane.

Nb - I think I may actually be your friend. Not sure whether I use those exact words, but dh does do more than his fair share of evening pick ups and errands. Not sure how it's evolved that way but not complaining! I do say thank you though, cos I'm well-mannered like that.

Are you jealous?

pooka :o I don't mind being told I'm unreasonable! If I am, I am!!

Maybe your friends conversation just serves to highlight the fact, you do not feel able to expect the same asks of your DH.