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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To want tell someone about DP's bonus and pay rise?

49 replies

JustGiveMeTheWine · 09/12/2011 17:09

I know I shouldn't as everyone is struggling financially at the moment!
But we've had our fair share of money probs lately where it has literally kept me awake at night but DP just came home to tell me his boss has given him a big xmas bonus and a big pay rise in January!!! He bloody deserves it too! He's worked his guts out and contributed to keeping the business going!
His boss has asked him to keep it quiet as not everyone is getting a bonus or pay rise!
Im having a bloody good drink tonight to celebrate!

OP posts:
Hassledge · 09/12/2011 17:10

That's brilliant news - enjoy that drink :).

FabbyChic · 09/12/2011 17:10

Why the need to drink, why cant you be happy without alcohol. It's overrated you know.

spiderpig8 · 09/12/2011 17:11

You 'tell' away.Well done to your DH!!It is nice to hear someone is having some good news in these bleak economic times.

usualsuspect · 09/12/2011 17:12

Congrats Envy

oh fab,here have a glass of Wine

StealthPolarBear · 09/12/2011 17:15

brilliant :o

HowToLookGoodGlaikit · 09/12/2011 17:16

ach bah humbug Fabby! cant you just be nice for once?

zukiecat · 09/12/2011 17:22

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oopslateagain · 09/12/2011 17:54

Oh that's fab! Have a large Wine and enjoy planning what you're going to spend it on!

My DH got a big back payment a few months ago, we were over the moon as we got to pay off almost all our debts in one go, but kept it quiet to avoid the Hmm looks from acquaintances (we told a couple of good friends and they were thrilled for us). We wanted to shout it from the rooftops! Grin

We have JUST found out that DH overpaid his taxes last year by almost £2000 and we have a refund! Christmas will be good this year Xmas Grin

Alibabaandthe80nappies · 09/12/2011 17:56

Fabby you are like a giant humbug spread across the boards atm - relax Xmas Grin

OP that is fabulous news, have a lovely Christmas!!

mumblechum1 · 09/12/2011 17:59

OP, congratulations and well done to your dh. Xmas Smile

Whateveryousaymustberight · 09/12/2011 17:59

Congratulations!

whackamole · 09/12/2011 18:07

I think it takes a special sort of person to not be happy for someone that has worked hard and actually earned a good bonus/payrise!

Congrats from me, enjoy your wine.

chinateacup · 09/12/2011 18:09

Good news! Enjoy your drinkies Smile

verytellytubby · 09/12/2011 18:09

Congrats Grin raises a glass Grin

randommoment · 09/12/2011 18:12

Wine isn't quite the right smiley, MNHQ could you give us [champagne] please?

Whateveryousaymustberight · 09/12/2011 18:12

Sod it, it's Friday night. I'm gonna get myself a big glass of wine and celebrate with you.

Doobydoo · 09/12/2011 18:12

Great news.He should benefit.Hurrah and Merry Christmas!

aldiwhore · 09/12/2011 18:16

That is great news. I understand the AIBU part though, DH has had a very good year this year (self employed) and I am often a bit scared to tell people as most other people I know have had major worries... but y'know, I don't feel guilty, when I think of all the years that were shit and it appeared everyone else was fine, I could still be happy for them.

Well done your DH Justgivemethewine celebrate, enjoy!!

HappyCamel · 09/12/2011 18:21

Well done! DH as had similar news, I think it's actually quite wide spread but journalists only like doom and gloom stories and competitive misery and jealousy seem to be everywhere.

maras2 · 09/12/2011 18:23

Congratulations,what lovely news especially this close to Christmas.I'm made up for you and yours. Mx.

CailinDana · 09/12/2011 18:24

Aww that is great, well done to your DP. Make sure you're not all sensible with it, have a bit of a splash!

ElderberrySyrup · 09/12/2011 18:26

Congratulations your DP and enjoy Xmas!

marthastew · 09/12/2011 18:26

Its great when hard work pays off! Well done to your DP

WhoIsThatMaskedWoman · 09/12/2011 18:29

Congratulations! Have a lovely Xmas (and perhaps slip a donation to Crisis or the Samaritans or whoever?)

SmellslikeSANTAScatspee · 09/12/2011 18:32

Good for you!!!

Enjoy,