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To want to slap this scummy mummy in the face!

46 replies

melika · 16/11/2011 17:04

This afternoon, I came out of the local superstore to find a small car next to mine. When I went in, it had loads of space around and I do this to stop people slamming their car doors into mine. As I was wheeling my trolley up to my car I noticed a young woman with a child, she was horrible to him, screaming at him to keep still. She was wiping his arse with baby wipes, while he was standing up. She had her car door wide open but I thought it wasn't touching mine.

Basically, when I went to get in my car, she reversed with child and mother in the back rapidly out of the space. I looked down to see the open, shitty nappy and wipes exactly where she had cleaned him. I looked out at her and give her a look. I couldn't believe she had done it, what scummy mummy could do that in broad daylight? Then I thought if she has done that, maybe she has hit my car with her door and she had. I have two blue blobs of her car paint on mine and she has knocked some of mine off too.

I felt like driving after her and giving her a piece of my mind. If I could name her and shame her, I would. Why didn't she just change him in the shop or at home and why didn't she take her shit home too? AIBU???Angry

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Sirzy · 16/11/2011 17:07

Yuck! Why should some poor person from the supermarket have to clean up her sons shit!

MrBloomsNursery · 16/11/2011 17:09

Eeeew. You should have picked up the nappy and thrown it at her car.

cjbartlett · 16/11/2011 17:11

Ew! Gross

MrsWembley · 16/11/2011 17:11

Is it a carpark with CCTV? I'd be asking them to give you the registration so you can pass it onto the insurance company.

melika · 16/11/2011 17:16

I doubt it, cos it was at the very end of the carpark.

I am resigned to what happened but if she is reading this thread, I don't think you are a very nice person and if I see your car again, I will leave you a little something (maybe a note!), I just feel like I have been 'had'!

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cjbartlett · 16/11/2011 17:18

You don't come across as great though - slapping, going after her etc etc

OTTMummA · 16/11/2011 17:19

That is disgusting, what a dirty bitch, you should of thrown it at her car.
I had to chuck a baggie of dog shit at my neighbours garage door because he just laughed at me when i told him what his dog had done.

Why do some people think this is ok?

melika · 16/11/2011 17:21

Of course I wouldn't slap her, but she did damage my car too! I think it was wishful thinking and wished I had told her how I felt. That's all!!

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Gingefringe · 16/11/2011 17:24

Agree she's a dirty bitch. Feel sorry for the poor kid whose going to have this person to look after him.

CamperFan · 16/11/2011 17:26

I don't think it's unreasonable for someone to want to drive after her given she's just damaged their car, cj.

Sounds disgusting, OP.

StrandedBear · 16/11/2011 17:26

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CamperFan · 16/11/2011 17:34

I don't think StrandedBear is being PC, shineon, surely "scummy mummy" just sounds naff? Like yummy mummy.

smartyparts · 16/11/2011 17:39

I would've taken her number plate and reported her to the police. Littering makes me very Angry and she seemingly damaged your car.

duckdodgers · 16/11/2011 19:24

cj whats wrong with wanting to go after someone who has damaged your car and driven away without leaving their insurance details?

LaurieFairyCake · 16/11/2011 19:31

Slummy mummy

Scummy mummy

Who cares? Confused

ApocalypseCheeseToastie · 16/11/2011 19:35

Ewwww, dirty cow.

CotherMuckingFunt · 16/11/2011 19:37

I prefer the term 'scuzzy fuckers'

completefailure · 16/11/2011 19:39

Ew I would have just rushed home and changed it there.

JackTheNipper · 16/11/2011 19:40

thats just disgusting! I dont blame you for wanting to go after he I would have felt the same!

Thetallestsunflower · 16/11/2011 19:45

EEw that is disgusting! I hate seeing things like that!

Salmotrutta · 16/11/2011 19:52

Pretty horrible - someone will probably tread on some of the poo and trail it into the shop. Nice.

Not to mention the damage to your car.

Very selfish behaviour.

MissBetsyTrotwood · 16/11/2011 19:52

Oh, that's wrong on so many levels. Exactly the sort of scummy, 'fuck you' attitude I can't bear. I'd have been furious too.

StrandedBear · 16/11/2011 19:54

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