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AIBU?

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To want to slap this scummy mummy in the face!

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melika · 16/11/2011 17:04

This afternoon, I came out of the local superstore to find a small car next to mine. When I went in, it had loads of space around and I do this to stop people slamming their car doors into mine. As I was wheeling my trolley up to my car I noticed a young woman with a child, she was horrible to him, screaming at him to keep still. She was wiping his arse with baby wipes, while he was standing up. She had her car door wide open but I thought it wasn't touching mine.

Basically, when I went to get in my car, she reversed with child and mother in the back rapidly out of the space. I looked down to see the open, shitty nappy and wipes exactly where she had cleaned him. I looked out at her and give her a look. I couldn't believe she had done it, what scummy mummy could do that in broad daylight? Then I thought if she has done that, maybe she has hit my car with her door and she had. I have two blue blobs of her car paint on mine and she has knocked some of mine off too.

I felt like driving after her and giving her a piece of my mind. If I could name her and shame her, I would. Why didn't she just change him in the shop or at home and why didn't she take her shit home too? AIBU???Angry

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RomanKindle · 16/11/2011 20:29

YANBU as that is disgusting but I would hope that she has left the nappy on the floor by mistake and was meaning to put it in a bag to take home. I refuse to believe anyone would do that on purpose.

JamieComeHome · 16/11/2011 20:31

I think scummy covers it rather well. Not a nice person

(possibly having a bad day ....... Wink?)

JamieComeHome · 16/11/2011 20:32

Roman - have you really never met anyone vile? You are really lucky. Thank God there aren't many of them, but they do spoil it for the rest of us.

JamieComeHome · 16/11/2011 20:33

I think it's more upsetting when a mum is horrible. But people don't necessarily become nice when they have children

RomanKindle · 16/11/2011 20:39

There is vile and then there is leaving a nappy full of toddler shit in a carpark open for all to see. I would like to hope that would be done more likely by accident than on purpose.

MumblingAndBloodyRagDoll · 16/11/2011 20:39

YAck. I used to live in a block of flats in London and one woman on the 8th floor used to chuck ALL her babies nappies out of the window! there was a pile on the front of the buildings entrance! Some residents called the council and recorded footage of her doing it....stunning ignorance.

MumblingAndBloodyRagDoll · 16/11/2011 20:40

Roman see my post above!

HavePatience · 16/11/2011 20:40

Cj must be the mummy from the car park

usualsuspect · 16/11/2011 20:42

Was it Waitrose carpark?

SugarPustyBear · 16/11/2011 20:43

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RomanKindle · 16/11/2011 20:44

Good Lord Ragdoll! What happened? Did she stop or get kicked out?

McPhee · 16/11/2011 20:45

Ewww...I bet this wasn't Waitrose Grin

RomanKindle · 16/11/2011 20:51

Gotta be Asda!

sheepgomeep · 16/11/2011 21:01

Why Asda? Plenty of scummy people in Tesco or sainsbury's carparks.

I have worked in Asda for years and have yet to see someone chuck shitty nappies round the car park Hmm

RomanKindle · 16/11/2011 21:05

Wow Asda staff are fiercely protective! Erm just a light hearted comment. Might be Harrods food court for all I know!

JamieComeHome · 16/11/2011 22:55

Oh, I'd ^like6 to think it too, but experience tells me otherwise

LeBOF · 16/11/2011 22:58

There will definitely be cctv- I'd take it up with customer services (about your car, I mean, but you would probably accidentally mention the nappy too) and show them the time on your receipt.

melika · 17/11/2011 09:29

It was Tescos and I would think it was too late anyway!

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melika · 17/11/2011 09:35

In a way, I can't believe her mother in the back never 'advised' her that it would be better to change him at home and the whole thing would never had happened. It was a blue '08 clio, that's all I know. She was slim, dressed casually, in her 20's, long blonde straightened hair.

Does anybody know her?Wink

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JamieComeHome · 17/11/2011 19:58

melika - her mum brought her up ....

melika · 18/11/2011 08:31

I know, but, as we get older, we get wiser?

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