AIBU to be really annoyed and want to evict my DS1H

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he is ment to be at college .

but has decided he has cold and isn't going in.

This will be the third day in 3 weeks he hasnt gone to college

I can see him losing his place and I worry about that .

I've just spoken to his dad (my ex husband) and his atttitude is let him do what he wants if he fs it up he f*s it up

But if he fuc**s it up he will still be under my roof and I don't want I son who drops out of college and doesnt work expecting me to pay for me .

would it be unreasonable to tell him to leave

yeh she's already said that !!!!

anyway well done you x My 3 and 9,7 and 3 BUT I work with 16-25 year olds - most of them in one drama or another - some serious some not!

self harming isn;t always done for those reasons - and his GF being a self harmer is no reason for him to stay with her OR for her to sponge of his mum

by all means she can point her to her GP and adult MH services but it's not actually her responsibility - and she has been supportive

maybe you could offer to put her up ?

@FabbyChic she is not my child ...she is my sons girlfriend .

And I don't for a minute think she's doing it for fun but she is getting both myself and my son pandering to her because neither of us want to upset her in case she takes it further