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to think that not every man on mumsnet must be "dodgy"

755 replies

OpinionSeeker · 15/11/2011 22:34

A thread on mums net to settle an argument about mumsnet...
DH thinks that if a man is on mumsnet then he must have an ulterior motive, to chat up 'mums' - he wants me to add that he thinks they must be devious. I think, perhaps naively that there are probably some genuine male parents, aka dads, wishing to discuss parenting issues. DH believes men should be on dadsnet.
Genuinely looking for opinions.

OP posts:
Psammead · 16/11/2011 15:31

No.

It's really fucked up.

And I mean really.

Moominsarescary · 16/11/2011 15:31

I always thought flirting was harmless anyway, dp is a big flirt

I'm crap at reading posters names so would have no idea male or female anyway.

I realy like some people on here, can't remember who they are though

AnyFucker · 16/11/2011 15:31

cheep I was about to turn up the flirting volume, until you started talking about your BH's

MrGin · 16/11/2011 15:32

Got to say one of the things I'm pretty careful about, other than with SS, is flirting with women on here.

Just feel so left out when everyone's snogging and licking each others faces < weeps >

AnyFucker · 16/11/2011 15:32

my laptop couldn't stand it...it is dying already, if I google the snake thing it might explode

Psammead · 16/11/2011 15:32

Me, Moomin. We're mates.

Ahh, another day, another person coersed into liking me.

Psammead · 16/11/2011 15:33

Gin, it makes you all the more interesting Wink

AnyFucker · 16/11/2011 15:34

that is favouritism MrG

the most pc (and unthreatening) way to flirt is to do it with everybody

not that anyone on this thread is threatening, btw

Moominsarescary · 16/11/2011 15:34

I've never been snogged or had my face licked on here

Someone agreed with me the other day though

AnyFucker · 16/11/2011 15:35

moomin I'm on that list too, just to remind you

HeresTheThingBooyhoo · 16/11/2011 15:35

only read the OP so far.

"I think, perhaps naively that there are probably some genuine male parents, aka dads, wishing to discuss parenting issues."

there are. i have knowingly spoken to several men on here and got no indication whatsoever that their questions about primary education, shared parenting or feminist issues were in anyway them trying to secure a date for the weekend.

i am guessing i have also unknowingly had discussions with male posters as i dont tend to ask what sex every poster is befire i engage. no-one has asked me out yet and i've been here 3 years. Sad Grin

cheeptrick · 16/11/2011 15:36

Bugger i would love to flirt with you AF Wink

AnyFucker · 16/11/2011 15:37

there is nothing stopping you cheep

I just thought you might be a bit busy, what wiv labour 'n' stuff

Pan · 16/11/2011 15:39

chilly AF? Am insensitive enough to not have noticed!!

MrGin · 16/11/2011 15:41

< licks everybody >

Psammead · 16/11/2011 15:43

I think generally it's just safer flirting with women. With the blokes, you never know how seriousy they might take it, and then it might get awkward.

With women, I can say

MrGin · 16/11/2011 15:43

I think this is the point the OP's husband comes to check the thread and finds snake wanking and licking.

Psammead · 16/11/2011 15:44

Oh righ, yeah.

Noooo, OP, no dodginess at all!

Moominsarescary · 16/11/2011 15:44

Two people i like, a lick and someone agreeing with me,

Bloody hell it's nearly a quiche

Psammead · 16/11/2011 15:45

Now you're either a fun woman, or a tricksy man, pretending. Hmm.

cheeptrick · 16/11/2011 15:45

I'm not getting any other action so i take what i can get Grin

I read about oz snogging on another thread - AF when you are ready just shout iceburg and i'll go down under Wink

AnyFucker · 16/11/2011 15:47

yes, I do mean that thread, Pan, and I did shout at you quite a bit on it Smile

cheeptrick · 16/11/2011 15:47

(sorry OP DH - i was just joking honest Blush)

AnyFucker · 16/11/2011 15:48

cheep ...it's been a while hasn't it ? Grin

Hullygully · 16/11/2011 15:50

yes and no

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