So, sat am getting kids ready for gymnastics, dh in bed (he lies in and I get dd ready and then he gets up and has ds) I come in and pick his work trousers off the chair and say 'are these for the wash?' he says 'yes' and watches me take the belt off and carry them off with a big pile of washing. I come back a couple of hours later and dh glares at me saying his iPhone was in his trousers and has gone thru the wash, he was pretty ok about it sat and sun, trying to dry it out but being normal and now tonight I've come back from the gym and said 'oh, my mum has an old phone you can borrow while we work out what to do aboutyours' to which he got really arsey saying it was 100percent my fault and that he didn't want some crappy old phone of my mums. My fault or his or just a stupid mistake?