Ah, yes, TotemPole, but who is making the decision on who exactly is a carer or has a disability? ATOSsers. The same people who claim that having uncontrolled epilepsy, at least 50+ seizures a year, no longer makes me disabled. In fact, against the advice of my own Neurologist - I have been signed as fit for FT work. My Neuro will only sign my fit-to-work note as fit to work PT on light duties. ATOSsers do not see that an official fit-to-work note means anything, as I pass their physical test.
So while, in reality, I have '(a) the claimant has limited capability for work and work-related activity,' As far as ATOSsers are concerned, I do not. Which is funny, considering that up until 15 months ago, I was classed as not fit for FT work, and was on IB and DLA (HRC, LRM) until my renewal and testing by ATOSsers. And my disability hasn't suddenly vanished overnight, shockingly. It is still there, I still have seizures. In fact, I have had more than three absence seizures today.
And you are forgetting that the DWP's own rules state that if you are registered disabled, you cannot also claim to be a carer. Because carers with disabilities don't exist...
And where do you propose I GET this £2-£3 a week to 'put aside'? From the same place I am hoping will magically provide me with the money to buy the next size up of clothes for 9mo DS3 who has grown so quickly that he is needing 12-18 month clothes already, three months before I budgetted to buy them? Considering I am still in debt from the DWP making me make one week's Income Support last me two weeks, when I was changed over to fortnightly, AND my bus fares to get my dc to school cost me £50 a week that I DON'T HAVE except FROM my bill money - £2-£3 is more than I can find.
I have had to ask the primary school for special dispensation WRT all the non-uniform days that are coming up - the dc are meant to be taking in £1 each on Thursday to be 'allowed' to wear non-uniform for Children In Need, but I just don't HAVE the £2 needed to pay for it, and don't want the dc to get picked on for having to wear school uniform. I have to budget down to the last penny and then some. I owe my Ex-P money for when my budgetted electricity hasn't lasted the full week, and he has had to top the meter up for me - right now I owe him nearly £40 for it. I daren't put the heating on - it is costing me more than I can afford to put the gas on for Hot water - I am only putting it on every other day at the moment, and we are washing using a boiled kettle of water in the sink each on those days.
I am SKINT, there IS no way I can 'save up' to try to cover the DWP making me try to stretch one weeks money to cover 4 weeks worth of bills. And you can't cancel your Gas or Electric DD when you are on a key meter - if you don't PAY for the Gas and electric there and then - yo don't HAVE any. So no, those bills won't wait. And our water company expect you to pay 6 months in advance - and if you don't, they can AND WILL cut you off if all your dc are over 5yo!