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mumofthreekids · 05/11/2011 09:59

How much time do you spend on MN? And are you happy with that or do you feel guilty about it?

I am a relatively new addict mumsnetter and I have noticed a definite deterioration in the tidiness of the house recently! Should I step away from the computer now before it's too late??

I have an hour or two a day of "me time" while my eldest is at school and the other two are asleep (until DD finally drops her nap!). I also indulge in the evening if DH is out for drinks after work or watching the football or if there is a particularly interesting thread. And there are the odd moments on my iPhone thoroughout the day. I reckon I must have spent around 7 hours on it in the past week!

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LoveBeingAFirework · 05/11/2011 10:04

The worst thing I ever did in relation to my mn habit was to get an iPhone

MotherPanda · 05/11/2011 10:05

I spend most of my day flicking through mumsnet. Breastfeeding is a long and boring process

MotherPanda · 05/11/2011 10:06

God, the house is a state!

StellaAndFries · 05/11/2011 10:08

I dip in and out throughout the day thanks to my iPhone and iPad, dp hogs the remote so I mn rather than watch tv of an evening.

thenightsky · 05/11/2011 10:08

I tell myself 1 hour of housework or going running gives me 2 hours of guilt free mumsnetting Grin

works for me most days

Honeydragon · 05/11/2011 10:08

Really firework? It was the best thing I did Grin

I spend a lot of time on here, but as a sahp / wahp it's often the only down time I get for me IYSWIM.

I don't feel guilty as on bad days when I can't leave the house it reminds me that there are real grown up human beings still out there somewhere Smile

Honeydragon · 05/11/2011 10:09

Oh, and yes I much prefer here to the dross on tv of an evening.

Proudnscary · 05/11/2011 10:09

You won't get honest answers on here from some, because in all seriousness some people are definitely addicted and won't want to admit it to themselves.

I reckon some are on here more than they're off tbh.

I pop in and out - so will go on for 10 minute periods a few times a day, then not come back for a week or two etc, sometimes a few months.

But if a thread grabs you, it's amazing how an hour can pass by!

CotherMuckingFunt · 05/11/2011 10:12

I don't ever feel guilt for time spent on here. This is because dh has a noisy van so I can always hear him coming home giving me time to leap up and look busy.

I also get the house clean/tidy before I go on so I can spend all day here without needing to be interrupted by pesky hoovers or sinks.

trixymalixy · 05/11/2011 10:12

I'm thinking of scaling down my time on Mumsnet. I spend far too long on here, when I have far better things to do.

Honeydragon · 05/11/2011 10:13

Proud, I honestly didn't think you could become addicted to a website, till a friend of mine told me how often she goes on netmums Shock. She is a busy SAHP with an active social life but she is literally constant, always on her phone.

rycooler · 05/11/2011 10:31

Getting an iPhone was the worst thing I ever did ( in respect of the time I waste on the Internet ) if I didn't have my phone I know I wouldn't be on here much at all - I don't think it's a 'mumsnet' addiction - more a flicking through my phone addiction. ( I spend too much time on Facebook too )

rycooler · 05/11/2011 10:33

Oh I've become seriously addicted to netmums - I was chatting on there until midnight last night Shock

TestAnswers · 05/11/2011 10:37

I keep leaving - so this is probably my fifth username. I leave because I recognise that I spend too much of my time reading and replying to AIBU posts. When I leave I still read them though!

I don't know how much time I spend each day reading/replying but at a guess it is about 30 mins on average. It is a habit and one I would really like to kick if I am honest. I used to have three websites that I would come on and check whenever I could and waste too many hours on - this have been reduced down to two now.

I have half been waiting for a thread like this - as a sign to stop this habit. Thank you.

rycooler · 05/11/2011 10:49

And even though I'm not on here that much - I still hate myself for wasting time here - it's like a dirty little habit I just can't kick - I know it's sad to spend a lot of time of chat sites ( it really is - no denying it ) but it probably is an addiction of sorts.

LeBOF · 05/11/2011 10:52

I probably still waste more time in real life. Just about.

mankymink · 05/11/2011 11:09

I've recently returned to work full time after 8 months Mat Leave. And as much as I love my job, it hasn't half gotten in the way of my daily interwebs habit Grin

I do miss MN terribly, even though I mainly lurked.

I still try to swan in on the weekends to see what's going on - it's a great place to let off steam, have a laugh and pick up invaluable advice and tips from (mainly) awesome and intelligent ladies with an excellent sense of humour.

PattySimcox · 05/11/2011 11:47

Far too much time - after the DCs are in bed (later and later atm as DS doesn't go to bed til 9.30) I spend all evening on my laptop - not just mn but other stuff too.

I pop on a couple of times during the day as well and get sucked in

Flisspaps · 05/11/2011 11:54

Too much. On work days I have a block placed on it (I work from home) so that I can't get on it. The temptation to just 'pop on' for five minutes when the children are napping is too much.

RealityIsADistantMemory · 05/11/2011 11:57

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gorionine · 05/11/2011 11:59

I used to spend quite a long time on it daily. Have now less daily time available so spend lot of time weekly insteadGrin

pramsgalore · 05/11/2011 12:00

i spend my time on mumsnet and doing bits of housework, but yes my house is more untidy since i found mumnet Blush and when i go out for the day, one of the first things i do when i get home is check on here Grin

NinkyNonker · 05/11/2011 12:02

I should be on here much less. I almost regret getting my smartphone, I need to stop using it before DD thinks it is surgically implanted into my hand.

antarctic · 05/11/2011 15:04

In theory I think MN is fab for getting advice and sharing my wisdom. In practice I do have feelings of self-loathing when I find I have inadvertently wasted hours on it.

CheerfulYank · 05/11/2011 15:10

Far, far too much time.

But I love it so.