I am due back to work soon and am very fortunate to have my mum offer to look after dd. She does not want paying for this but I think we need to give her some money to cover some of her expenses looking after her (petrol, playgroups etc).
I think £50 a month sounds about right but dh thinks we don't need to give her anything and any grandparent would look after dd for free. His parents work and are not able to help.
I think he is completely out of order and is taking my mum for granted. Does £50 sound about right or too little or not enough?