to dump OH after he has really enhanced my life?

[MightyOakey]

I'll try to keep this brief.

I met OH about 5 years ago when I was working in a bar, not really my ideal job, but needs must at that time.

Well, over the last few years being with him, my life had improved in leaps and bounds - I almost feel like someone new.

But now, although I still love him and am grateful for the good times and the opportunities he has given me, I just think it's time I live my life on my own.

He's obviously gutted and there's been some veiled threats, actually I do feel I'd have found a better place without him anyway. But I think he's all bluster and just devastated I don't feel that way anymore.

So WIBU to leave him, or should I stay with him out of obligation and guilt?

Don't..don't you want me....

Love that song

Are you working as a waitress in a cocktail bar perchance?

Is this really about money?

Dun dun da dun dun, Dun dun dun dun. Dun dun da dun dun, dunna dun dun.

Of course don't stay with him out of obligation and guilt.

The way you're talking about your relationship with him is a bit odd though.

Saying you still love him and are grateful for what he's given you, but if you loved him, you wouldn't be able to find a place that's better than being with him?

What's in the better place that you can't have if you stayed with him?

Don't forget he put you where you are now, and he can put you back again

Gah...had

I meant my post ironically of course

Human League anyone? Love your post, OP

Who could reject Phil Oakley?

What has he actually DONE for you though?

I think you should change your mind back otherwise you'll both be sorry. Probably.

Make it a large one please worra

I've always fucking hated that song anyway.

And the rest of the 80's come to think of it...

He shook me up and turned me around.

Zigzag - course you did love [hwink]

Lust's just a distraction...

No one hates the 80s.

Stop lying.

But there was passion burning, love so strong.

Perhaps my gratitude should keep us together?

Do you never just feel like you are being boiled though?

Oh, thank God I read the other posts on this thread before replying... Was defo not reading it in the spirit in which it was intended, and was preparing serious reply.

I think your lucky...

DP works on the docks and he's had a really hard time with the union recently. I really want to run away but he's swears we'll make it.

It's tough.

So tough?