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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to dump OH after he has really enhanced my life?

99 replies

MightyOakey · 29/10/2011 22:58

I'll try to keep this brief.

Smile

I met OH about 5 years ago when I was working in a bar, not really my ideal job, but needs must at that time.

Well, over the last few years being with him, my life had improved in leaps and bounds - I almost feel like someone new.

But now, although I still love him and am grateful for the good times and the opportunities he has given me, I just think it's time I live my life on my own.

He's obviously gutted and there's been some veiled threats, actually I do feel I'd have found a better place without him anyway. But I think he's all bluster and just devastated I don't feel that way anymore.

So WIBU to leave him, or should I stay with him out of obligation and guilt?

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AgentZigzag · 29/10/2011 23:53

MNHQ asleep, my arse.

Drunken stupor more like Grin

justwatching · 29/10/2011 23:54

I think you should stay with DP. He's having a really hard time! Gosh, can't you just try and help him through this.

squeakyfreakytoy · 29/10/2011 23:55

well mrs ruffallo.. it was a kind of so so love, so I will just say hello and wave goodbye..

thewashfairy · 29/10/2011 23:56

Love Is A Battlefield and through The Eye of The Tiger,Another one Bites To Dust.
Don't Stop Believing,don't forget,you're Holding Out For A Hero....

O,the eighties..... such fond memories [hwink]

squeakyfreakytoy · 29/10/2011 23:58

I am going to see Rock of Ages in the west end in a couple of weeks.. cant wait... I will be singing along loudly! Grin

babybarrister · 29/10/2011 23:58

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thewashfairy · 30/10/2011 00:04

Squeakyfreakytoy [henvy] [henvy] [henvy] [henvy] [henvy]

ShadowsCollideWithPeople · 30/10/2011 00:06

Aw, Howling, Close your eyes, give me your hand, Darling. Cos, y'know, it's tricky to rock a rhyme, to rock a rhyme that's right on time...

HowlingWereWolfBitch · 30/10/2011 00:15
melika · 30/10/2011 01:52

Babey, give it up, babeey give it up!

melika · 30/10/2011 01:57

What about Shalimar!?!

melika · 30/10/2011 01:02

The Whispers. 'The beat goes on', look it up, it brings it all back!

auntiepicklebottom2 · 30/10/2011 01:03

think about it 1st you on't want to end up singing.

I heard that your settled down.
That you found a girl and your married now.
I heard that your dreams came true.
Guess she gave you things I didn't give to you.

Old friend why are you so shy?
It ain't like you to hold back or hide from the lie.

I hate to turn up out of the blue uninvited.
But I couldn't stay away I couldn't fight it.
I'd hoped you'd see my face & that you'd be reminded
That for me it isn't over.

Nevermind I'll find someone like you.
I wish nothing but the best for you too.

melika · 30/10/2011 01:10

Boogie wonderland by Earth, Wind and Fire. Not just New Romantics, eh???

HecateGoddessOfTheNight · 30/10/2011 08:36

Think you've got it bad?

My husband has a mediocre job in a takeaway. He is becoming detached from reality and is convinced he is actually an internationally famous dead rock and roll star.

Lucyinthepie · 30/10/2011 08:39

But he's a liar and I'm not sure about you...

MightyOakey · 30/10/2011 17:33

Meh, Maybe I'm just too demanding, maybe I'm just like my father, too bold?

Confused
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Malificence · 30/10/2011 18:10

So unplug the jukebox and do us all a favour ...

Oakmaiden · 30/10/2011 18:17

Heh.

Feeling miffed at your name though. I know there is room for lots of Oaks, but I don't think I've met another on here before... :)

VeryLittleGhastliness · 30/10/2011 18:50

Oakey

Maybe you're just like my mother...

EvilElizabethPonsonby · 30/10/2011 19:19

Subtle innuendo's eh ?

Putrifyno · 30/10/2011 20:21

You must be joking. You don't know a thing about it
You've got no problem. I'd stay right there if it were you
I got it harder. You couldn't dream how hard it got it
Stay out of my shoes. If you know what's good for you. Grin

Whatmeworry · 30/10/2011 20:38

He'll be turning Japanese....

I really think so.

babybarrister · 30/10/2011 21:56

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