to dump OH after he has really enhanced my life?

[MightyOakey]

I'll try to keep this brief.

I met OH about 5 years ago when I was working in a bar, not really my ideal job, but needs must at that time.

Well, over the last few years being with him, my life had improved in leaps and bounds - I almost feel like someone new.

But now, although I still love him and am grateful for the good times and the opportunities he has given me, I just think it's time I live my life on my own.

He's obviously gutted and there's been some veiled threats, actually I do feel I'd have found a better place without him anyway. But I think he's all bluster and just devastated I don't feel that way anymore.

So WIBU to leave him, or should I stay with him out of obligation and guilt?

Better hold on to what you've got I always say.

Just a polite request, Mighty; now you've got a bit of dosh, please please think about investing in some singing lessons.

For those of us with a reasonably musical ear, no amount of black eyeliner and monumental wedge haircuts will make up for being slightly flat all the fecking time.

I think we'll give it a shot.

Howling - working for your man, are you? Bringing home your pay for love? It's tough. All that crying in the night, too - blardy exhausting

Thanks for disclosing shadows

In the 80s -

My hair wouldn't flick
I wasn't allowed spray on jeans
I thought banana yellow dungarees in cotton were cool

None of it my fault.

Don't you dare tell me I don't hate the 80s

for Agent & co

See, now I know what they're saying, when the drums begin to fade.

I used to do welding... it was a bit of a crap job though...

there is nothing, but your fears, but then the silent tears of pride take over..

Awk freaky just feel the music. Close you eyes and feel the rhythm.

your*

I do.. but I am just a smalltown girl.. living in a lonely world...

And they said it would never last through the barricades .....

I guess it's just what you must do.

Come live with me!

sometimes I feel I've got to run away

Don't leave me this way squeaky. I can't survive :(

The love we share seems to go nowhere.

Bollocks. Now I'm gagging to stick on some Bon Jovi and dance in my living room. [hangry] [hgrin].

Zigzag, the 80's were the decade that caused me to want a Rainbow Brite dress, highlights, and a perm. For my First Communion. So I kind of simultaneously love and hate the 80's.

As much fun as this is, I am super cross that you lot spoiled it so soon.

If you hadn't I could've hooked some more suckers like Agent.

[grr]

You feckers.

Howling, give me time, to realise my crime..

Ooh, zingzilla ... Cheers, clink, glug. [hgrin]

Oakey...

Give it up... give it up...