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AIBU?

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to dump OH after he has really enhanced my life?

99 replies

MightyOakey · 29/10/2011 22:58

I'll try to keep this brief.

Smile

I met OH about 5 years ago when I was working in a bar, not really my ideal job, but needs must at that time.

Well, over the last few years being with him, my life had improved in leaps and bounds - I almost feel like someone new.

But now, although I still love him and am grateful for the good times and the opportunities he has given me, I just think it's time I live my life on my own.

He's obviously gutted and there's been some veiled threats, actually I do feel I'd have found a better place without him anyway. But I think he's all bluster and just devastated I don't feel that way anymore.

So WIBU to leave him, or should I stay with him out of obligation and guilt?

OP posts:
HowlingWereWolfBitch · 29/10/2011 23:39

Do you really want to hurt me?!

You do don't you.

babybarrister · 29/10/2011 23:40

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squeakyfreakytoy · 29/10/2011 23:41

it means nothing to me.............

Lucyinthepie · 29/10/2011 23:41

Vienna!

babybarrister · 29/10/2011 23:42

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HowlingWereWolfBitch · 29/10/2011 23:42

Fine, If that's the case then.

You can't touch this!

babybarrister · 29/10/2011 23:43

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PumpkinSizedEmmaRoyd · 29/10/2011 23:43

do you enjoy what you do?
if not just stop
don't stay there and rot

Lucyinthepie · 29/10/2011 23:44

(Going off to have a Midge Ure dream now, with a bit of luck. Got an extra hour to enjoy!).

squeakyfreakytoy · 29/10/2011 23:44

you drink your coffee...

and I'll drink my tea...

AgentZigzag · 29/10/2011 23:44

When I think of the 80s <a class="break-all" href="http://www.google.co.uk/imgres?q=deirdre+barlow+80s&hl=en&sa=X&biw=1146&bih=718&tbm=isch&prmd=imvnso&tbnid=HOoSK4azSAbBdM:&imgrefurl=www.scottsigler.com/node/4546&docid=LcjumPRRK3QddM&imgurl=farm6.static.flickr.com/5246/5376480496_fa05515c74.jpg&w=450&h=359&ei=cICsTsL6BZGE8gO-mNWqCw&zoom=1&iact=hc&vpx=810&vpy=257&dur=762&hovh=200&hovw=251&tx=147&ty=145&sig=112379514407926695039&page=2&tbnh=155&tbnw=194&start=17&ndsp=12&ved=1t:429,r:11,s:17" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">this is the image that pops into my head Shadows.

Warning - link contains hair that may offend. Not recommended for those of a nervous dispostion.

HowlingWereWolfBitch · 29/10/2011 23:45

I just can't get enough.

thewashfairy · 29/10/2011 23:45

Come On Eileen,Take me on! With Every Breath You Take,you Jump on this Tainted Love.
Everybody Wants To Rule The World and in the Land Down Under everybody is Hungry like A Wolf.
Don't You Forget About Me,it's True,I did Shout,now Beat It before the Total Eclipse Of My Heart.

AgentZigzag · 29/10/2011 23:46

Isn't being called a sucker a personal attack??

MightyOakey · 29/10/2011 23:48

No no no report.

Tis late and they're all at sleep.

And I'm luffly.

Wink
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aristocat · 29/10/2011 23:48

very good ladies ..... oh l'amour Grin

Oh L'Amour
Broke my heart
Now I'm aching for you

HowlingWereWolfBitch · 29/10/2011 23:49

Oh Oakey... They're always watching.

mrsruffallo · 29/10/2011 23:49

Step by step and day by day, every second counts I can't break away...

MightyOakey · 29/10/2011 23:50

Specially that Olivia??

Wink
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Ghostfillybuster · 29/10/2011 23:50

I know how you feel OP....

I love my dh, but sometime I just feel I need to get away. The love we share seems to go nowhere, and toss and turn, I can't sleep at night....

HowlingWereWolfBitch · 29/10/2011 23:51

I think she is a Depeche Mode fan so possibly.

ShadowsCollideWithPeople · 29/10/2011 23:52

Hehe, Zigzag, my Mum had pretty much that exact look going on when I was little. The shaggy perm and fly-eyes. Bless her.

Howling, I don't really want to hurt you. I do however, really want to make you cry-yyyyy.

HowlingWereWolfBitch · 29/10/2011 23:53

How rude.

ShadowsCollideWithPeople · 29/10/2011 23:53

Now, pleeeeeease, giiive a little reeeespect, toooooo meeeee-eeeeeeeeee

mrsruffallo · 29/10/2011 23:53

Love that one squeaky freaky, but it's getting kind of late now...I wonder if you'll stay now? stay now...stay now..or will you just politely say goodnight?