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AIBU?

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Original poster

To think my friend should have known which of 3 men were her dd's father?

37 replies

Proudnscary · 30/09/2011 19:45

She lives abroad, dd getting married. My friend has never known which of three men are dd's father (it's a very long story!) but dd wants to know who her dad is - understandably. I genuinely don't know which one it is but they are actually all nice guys who we've known for years.
Anyway her dd has confided in me that she wants to invite these guys out for the wedding!!
Firstly is this a mad idea, what does she hope to gain, and secondly shouldn't my friend have actually known which one is the dad and be able to tell her?? I feel angry with my friend and a bit angry with her dd taking a chance on me to confide in. AIBU/WWYD??

OP posts:
ThatsNotMyBabyBelly · 30/09/2011 19:46

Are any of the potential dads called Fernando?

Hassled · 30/09/2011 19:47

Here we go again

Original poster
Proudnscary · 30/09/2011 19:48

My my

You are so cynical

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PonceyMcPonce · 30/09/2011 19:49

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

worraliberty · 30/09/2011 19:50

Knowing me knowing you

Perhaps it was Alan Partridge?

VelvetSnow · 30/09/2011 19:50

I would just keep singing, I'd get my floors fixed because one day the pipes will just explode and everyone will get soaked - not to mention the dangerous brick debris!

I'd also run around wearing a really awful pair of dungarees Grin

VelvetSnow · 30/09/2011 19:51

Cock Piss Partridge

Original poster
Proudnscary · 30/09/2011 19:52

One of Us is getting a bit carried away now Velvet, my friend's Greek villa is absolutely solid. That could never happen.

OP posts:
SwimLittleFish · 30/09/2011 19:53

Yes she should, the trollop.

celebmum · 30/09/2011 19:56

Ha ha! As I read the OP I was thinking... Oooh I know this one! Grin

You all beat me to it!!

Andrewofgg · 30/09/2011 19:56

How? If they are all of the same ethnic origin and dd does not look obviously like one, how?

aldiwhore · 30/09/2011 19:58

Thank you, I now know what film to watch when DH works away tomorrow night... Grin

Its perfectly reasonable of your friend to not know... they didn't have Jeremy Kyle way back when!

aldiwhore · 30/09/2011 19:59

velvetsnow I LIKE those dungarees! Blush

ThatsNotMyBabyBelly · 30/09/2011 20:00

I have a sense of deja vu. Or should that be voulez-vous?

aldiwhore · 30/09/2011 20:01

ah-ha

AgentZigzag · 30/09/2011 20:01

'Dan.'

'Dan.'

'Dan!'

'Dan!!'

' Dan!! '

' Dan!!! '

' DAN!!! '

'Ah, he's not seen me.'

' DAN!!! '

Grin

Your life is more interesting than mine OP.

heleninahandcart · 30/09/2011 20:02

When was her DD born? If it was the 70's I'm surprised she even knows their names

AgentZigzag · 30/09/2011 20:02

Sorry, I meant your 'friend' has a more interesting life than mine Grin

Original poster
Proudnscary · 30/09/2011 20:08

Well Zigzag she was something of a dancing queen back in the day at Manhattan Lights disco circa 1977

OP posts:
aldiwhore · 30/09/2011 20:09

All is forgiven then I say... YABU Grin

BeyondLimitsOfTheLivingDead · 30/09/2011 20:11

She should invite them all. Her mum will be very happy when she rekindles her relationship with one of them, and they might even end up getting married too or instead

Alibabaandthe80nappies · 30/09/2011 20:11
Grin

I am now about to ruin my DH's Friday night by wanting to watch this Grin

VelvetSnow · 30/09/2011 20:13

Agent - DP has that as his ringtone! Dan.... Dan... Dan...

Drives me mad!

Let's be appalling!

booboobeedoo · 30/09/2011 20:17

Is she broken hearted? Since the day they parted?

cory · 30/09/2011 20:47

Could they be finding themselves at the crossroads?

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