'but not if your work always overruns so you can't use nurseries, you have to employ a nanny. You miss all Xmas plays, sports days, parents assemblies, work checking opportunities because of your job. You can never really have a good night out, because you might be called in to deal with a situation and you are always aware of that.
' That is a hard existence but I managed that on £16k working for a charity where most of my famillies were borerline social services cases and had my number. You I presume, like I did, do it in a great part for the love of it. Yes when I was called at 11pm to see if DH could fix someone's fridge 9er no) it was a PITA but not as much as the buzz of making a massive difference to famillies who would otherwise slip through the system. Had I not ahd Dh and Mum able to juggle chidlcare it would have been impossible fo course becuase you can't pay a Nanny, even where I hail from, on that money.
I do think the tax system is messed up. I am and always have been happy to pay tax (we were pushing HR when DH was amde redundant). I know some people are so well off theya re protected for life but most people are vulnerable to potentially needing the system themselves, or their chidlren needing it, and terhe's a huge element of common sense as well as altruism in keeping the system working (not saying it does work mind, know it fails many of the people who need it most whilst supporting those who are able but not willing to make any effort to self support).
But equally we know that high incomes DO come with associated costs- from work and commuting to chidlcare at unsociable hours- and I am coming around to the idea that increasingly higher tax rates is unfair, and that the TC system well run balances a lot of the system by making sure the poorer famillies ahve chidlcare support. We all know I presume TC are not well run; just as my third child faces a dx of autism we are told our income will drop by £200 (working poor I guess you'd term us but in reality more complex) and franly when I am trying to get 3 with autism out the door and being told by the Head that the remaining one has probable ADHD the last thing I need is to be told that I have enough time to sort out how to save that amonth- not with teh social hosuing deficit anyway.
Actually I think that's it for me: I;d be happy to see a drop in tax for HR payers as long as it ws combined with a social housing increase that enabled people on lowest incomes to cope without the money they will lose in cuts. Only, locally at least the people protested that they didn;t want affordable hosuing of any kind in their village and they won.
get that balance right though- the housing safety net and the incentivising tax system- and you've cracked it.
Is the rise in hatred of rich people possibly a result of the rise of the private landlord? I have some really very well off friends(not GP level, multi millionaires) adn the only time we don;t agree is when we discuss hosuing - on one hand I have famillies I have helped unable to get either a private rental becuase of silly anomallies (self employed, two part time incomes rather than one FT etc) or a social house (waiitng list) and have ahd to watch them celebrate Christmas in a one room hostel full of addicts with a newborn child, on the otehr they talk purely in terms of income streams and commodity and there's a v ery obvious and glaring gap.
Sorry stream of consciousness post. Talking gibberish as ever.