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To be a fan of the Oxford comma?

140 replies

MrMan · 01/07/2011 22:05

Sentences just seem so wrong otherwise.

OP posts:
toutlemonde · 03/07/2011 13:31

YANBU, I love the Oxford comma now that I know what it is. [Heads off excitedly to listen to the song.]

strawberryjelly · 03/07/2011 13:33

errr- what's this about no apostrophes in GCSE English?
do tell.

smellsofsick · 03/07/2011 13:42

I want to kiss the Oxford comma over its big, fat Oxford comma face

passes out

BreastmilkDoesAFabLatte · 03/07/2011 15:29

Great thread.

I don't like the Oxford comma, probably because I've been taught since birth never to use it.

I've had endless arguments debates with my DH about it, though, because, he; loves: to - put, a; punctuation; mark: wherever - he, possibly; can...

thumbwitch · 03/07/2011 15:36

I used to rail against the Oxford comma but I like it now. It certainly has its uses!

I can't bear it when idiots people alter my grammar! I was sub-editor on a journal for a while that was published by a private company who used the Microsoft Spellcheck and grammar checker; I'd send off my copy and they would "set" it and send it back for approval, FULL of spurious commas! In the end I had to email the girl and ask her to STOP using bloody grammar check as it had no clue; it just liked to add commas into sentences that were, IIO, "too long", regardless of how much it messed with the sense of the sentence.
(It was a scientific journal, btw).

I don't like spellcheck much either. It can't spell liaise correctly. Even if this is a verb made up from a noun in French that has no corresponding French verb, it should still be spelt correctly.

RockStockAndTwoOpenBottles · 03/07/2011 16:07

Love this thread more than I thought possible Grin.

MoreBeta · 03/07/2011 16:43

Goblin - sadly a mild dyslexia has rendered my spelling eternally bad. My English books were littered with red marks at school. Spellcheckers are my saviour - MN should have one. Smile

fairydoll · 03/07/2011 17:03

FFS this has got to be the ultimate show-off thread.If you gave a toss about it you would have posted it in pedants' corner for the other sad weirdos! But no. 'Look at me being all academic', on AIBU
What is unreasonable is that someone has such a sad life they are posting about punctuation at ten o'clock on a Friday night.
Smile Wink

PinkFondantFancy · 03/07/2011 17:21

I love using a comma like this. Now I have some ammo against my colleagues that are always correcting it..... Grin

cumfy · 03/07/2011 18:36

buffalo, buffalo, buffalo, buffalo, buffalo buffalo.

buffalo buffalo, Buffalo buffalo, buffalo, buffalo ?

buffalo buffalo buffalo, buffalo, buffalo, buffalo.

buffalo buffalo buffalo Buffalo buffalo buffalo!

All complete nonsense without punctuation! :)

teahouse · 03/07/2011 18:42

I'm an Oxford comma user, and proud of it!

GoblinMarket · 03/07/2011 19:03

Beta I do agree with you actually... I have sweated before about being picked up on my spelling on here!!

JamieAgain · 03/07/2011 19:06

I love a good comma, used correctly.

alicatte · 03/07/2011 19:17

I use it when it's needed but don't punish anyone for not using it if there is no danger of ambiguity. English is an evolving, living, and vibrant language after all.

bitzermaloney · 03/07/2011 19:31

Mostly, you don't need the Oxford comma. Using it in every list is a bit OCD. Just use it when you really have to, like putting on rubber gloves to clean the loo, but taking them off to watch telly.

TrilllianAstra · 03/07/2011 19:42

Mostly you don't need the Oxford comma, but if you always use it then when a list ends without a comma people will know that you are doing it on purpose and therefore there is no ambiguity.

TrilllianAstra · 03/07/2011 19:43

I don't care if I needed a comma there. I am writing as I could speak and in that sentence I would have paused at the place where I used the comma.

DirtyMartini · 03/07/2011 19:50

This blog post from AngrySubEditor seems to get it about right, IMO.

dearprudence · 03/07/2011 20:06

I like an Oxford comma too, so YANBU.

bitzermaloney · 03/07/2011 20:26

'People will know that you are doing it on purpose'.

By that argument you should always ignore subtle differences in meaning for the sake of apparent consistency, which isn't actually consistency but a fear of what other people might think. That creates ambiguity as well as being very rigid. I've heard the same argument used to justify always hyphenating certain pairs of words, when sometimes they need it and sometimes they don't - it depends on the context.

Sometimes a sentence just flows better without a comma, and sometimes you need one for clarity. If you put a blanket rule on it you can really spoil a piece of good writing.

wisecamel · 03/07/2011 20:33

Nope. YANBU. DH and I met as English students and he went on to become an English teacher. I am for the Oxford comma and he is against. Result is much wrangling in our house, trading personal insults, and stropping off every time we need to write the list for Tesco. We've only made the marriage work through sheer bloody-mindedness. He will see sense eventually.

pranma · 03/07/2011 21:05

I am very attached to commas in their place whether that be Oxford or Pity Me.

wisecamel · 03/07/2011 21:07

We are fighting over this RIGHT NOW.

wisecamel · 03/07/2011 21:09

DH is now pacing round conservatory ranting that Oxford comma is clumpy and does nothing to remove ambiguity. He is wrong.

TwoIfBySea · 03/07/2011 21:41

It can provide clarity especially with lists in a sentence!