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to ask who the fuck are the moderators on here and suggest that unless there was a very good reason to delete the HSBC thread - and I would like a very good reason - then this site is over-moderated

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activate · 24/06/2011 19:25

and I am not 12

can you please treat us like grown-ups

thank you

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LeQueen · 24/06/2011 19:53

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worraliberty · 24/06/2011 19:53

It's not racist to say you can't understand a foreign accent.

When I have to speak to the Indian call center BT puts me through to, they are almost all very clearly spoken and no problem at all to understand.

When my Bank put me through to their one the other day, I couldn't make head nor tail of what was being said and both the person and I were very embarrassed.

Psammead · 24/06/2011 19:54

The thread was not racist.

The title was harsh and unnecessary. An attempt at a humourous outpouring of anger which went awry.

I am not sure why MNHQ could not alter the title and leave the thread, but I have noticed they tend to take an all or nothing approach.

VeraGood · 24/06/2011 19:54

was it a threat to kill?
is against telecomms act isnt it

it was abit VILE

LeQueen · 24/06/2011 19:54

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bewbs123 · 24/06/2011 19:54

child: whats for tea mum

mnetter: hang on! someone said something wrong on the internet!!

reelingintheyears · 24/06/2011 19:55

It was not racist...

If their English is not up to the requirements of their job they they shouldn't be doing that job.

Glitterknickaz · 24/06/2011 19:55

I can't understand practically every accent out there, I'm severely hearing impaired.

Hence why I prefer to use online methods, and I'm quite thankful they exist. Plus it's easy to use them.

In fact I can't understand why the OP of the original thread didn't.... she's obviously computer literate Hmm

activate · 24/06/2011 19:56

"BoysAreLikeDogs Fri 24-Jun-11 19:48:57
honestly, what an awful way to address the folk who run this site, activate, your thread title is so so aggressive

really really rude
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Are you absolutely insane?

This is a business not an old boys club run on charitable guidelines

some moderators are being overly-zealous

but lol at you

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LeQueen · 24/06/2011 19:57

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RebeccaMumsnet · 24/06/2011 19:58

Hi there,

We deleted the thread as the title was, in our opinion, beyond the pale.

LeQueen please do feel free to repost your OP but please be mindful of our Talk guidelines

BitOfFun · 24/06/2011 19:59

I thought the title was over the top, but realised it wasn't to be taken literally and it didn't offend me. I suppose there were a lot of people who found it rather upsetting though, as there were clearly complaints.

MNHQ have got to do what they can to make this a welcoming place for people, and have to make judgement calls all the time, which I guess is often a thankless task.

I understand why you are frustrated, activate, but I have to say that I agree with BALD that your title is pretty discourteous.

kenobi · 24/06/2011 19:59

I didn't think it was racist myself but the post title was pretty full-on by any standards, and the inestimable LeQueen was pretty... erm... testy with some of the posters.

I imagine someone got ver' miffed, probably the person whose Dad (?) worked at HSBC and didn't take kindly to the fact he should drown in a pool of red, red blood.

How long do you think it would take to be pecked to death by pigeons, I wonder?

maryellenwalton · 24/06/2011 19:59

To call the thread racist is laughable.

Unless stating what country people come from is racist Confused. Or stating that there might be language issues when a different nationality is involved

kenobi · 24/06/2011 20:00

Oh ah, Xpost since MNHQ responded.

BitOfFun · 24/06/2011 20:00

I started typing that before Rachel arrived. Just in case it looks like I am crawling up her bottom. Sorry.

Haudyerwheesht · 24/06/2011 20:01

You aren't twelve you say...

activate · 24/06/2011 20:03

Thank you moderator for having the grace to reply

Makes me wonder about the threads with cunt in titles and the posters with fucker or cunt in their names

you don't consdier them beyond the pale?

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Disasterpiece · 24/06/2011 20:03

No not 12. 13 but 14 in 7 months and 2 weeks! Wink

Psammead · 24/06/2011 20:03

Also think BALD has a good point, actually. If you don't like the way MN is run, off you toddle.

LeQueen · 24/06/2011 20:04

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thisisyesterday · 24/06/2011 20:04

rebeccamumsnet.... can i ask why you didn't just change the thread title?

kenobi · 24/06/2011 20:05

I dunno, I'd rather be called a cunt than be told that I should drown in a pool of blood. I've always wondered by bad language is censored in 12 cert films yet it's ok for action stars to gun down and eviscerate hundreds of people.

Violence worse than swearing imho.

Not that I was one of the people who reported the thread, I hasten to add.

LeQueen · 24/06/2011 20:07

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QuickLookBusy · 24/06/2011 20:07

The thread title was awful.

When "bad taste" titles have been pointed out previously the OP usually puts their hands up and says "sorry didn't mean to offend, I'll get it changed."

The OPs lack of empathy towards posters saying they found the title upsetting did not go down well.

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