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to wonder when MNHQ introduced the policy to delete threads simply because people are disagreeing?

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Mamaz0n · 11/06/2011 17:48

I was just on a thread.
There was a disagreement over whether or not something was racist/offensive.

I could see no personal attacks, there was nothing that breached the talk guidelines.
I have no idea why the thread has been deleted.

So i can only assume it was because there was a disagreement on it.

Is this a new policy? Will we be seeing the vast majority of all threads being deleted now then?

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ShirleyKnot · 11/06/2011 18:20

HOLD UP TEDDY - if I am included in the "et al" then I would LOVE for you to show a post in which I have EVER been racist in any way shape or form. In fact I defy anyone to find a single post in which I have made an even tangental racist comment.

This fucking shit is VILE. I am slightly fed up of being accused of being a racist because I talked about fucking MEAT RAFFLES and pie and liquor and sang some stupid songs.

(are we still talking about the thread I was on yesterday?)

SuePurblybilt · 11/06/2011 18:21

Oh, I forgot the Meat Raffles Grin

Hullygully · 11/06/2011 18:22

Mamazon - I am only engaging in the interests of accuracy and fairness. Any comments that were eye for an eye were immediately pulled up by the rest of us.

And when we all got silly, as we pointed out on the thread, we were being silly about someone THAT DOES NOT EXIST. Crucial point.

Mamaz0n · 11/06/2011 18:22

Yes Bee was rude. She made an ignorant remark and used her culture to hide behind.

But rather than be called upon that people started insulting the travelling community. Making wild accusations and offensive generalisations.

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Goblinchild · 11/06/2011 18:22

I recognised a lot of the songs on that thread from my own cultural background of Scots/Yorkshire/Irish. I wandered off into Ewan Mccoll territory for a while in happy reflection.

AlpinePony · 11/06/2011 18:22

Amen pinky.

SarahBumBarer · 11/06/2011 18:22

I guess that makes sense mamazOn (and thanks) but then there are times when taking a tangential issue of to another thread seems like a very good idea. Something can be considered bad form without there necessarily being a complete prohibition on it. iMO of course and speaking generally - I didn't see what kicked off last night.

fedupofnamechanging · 11/06/2011 18:22

Mamazon, that's not exactly what I said. Of course it's wrong to say that all people in any given group are X or Y. My point is that she did this herself and then other people pointed out why she was inaccurate, based on what they had seen.

I think on MN, if you make an inflammatory/offensive/untrue statement then other people will pick flaws in what you've said and they won't do it nicely.

If X poster is deliberately rude, then other people will also be rude back. I don't think that a person should get an 'out' on the basis of their background. That's just patronising

Hullygully · 11/06/2011 18:23

Shirl, I've tried and tried.

Come be a broomstick riding racist lion and we'll fly to Vegas.

Hullygully · 11/06/2011 18:23

CAN YOU FEEL THE LOVE TONIGHT?

pink4ever · 11/06/2011 18:23

And here we go again-the same bunch of posters turning up and taking over the thread. Pathetic.

hobnobsaremyfavourite · 11/06/2011 18:25
Hullygully · 11/06/2011 18:25

Pinky, I love you. Come fly with me and w will make sweet sweet broomy music.

THE LION SLEEPS TONIGHT
HUSH MY DARLING
LA LA LA LA LA
THE LION SLEEPS TONIGHT

AAHHHHHHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA oOO oooo ooooooooooOO

Finallyspring · 11/06/2011 18:25

HAKUNA MATATA

Mamaz0n · 11/06/2011 18:25

hully - i didn't see you or Shirl say anything racist. In fact i saw you both oppose to teh racism.

I didn't read to the end as i have said.

When you became silly at the end, you may well have been being silly about a person that wasn't real, but the culture you were ( i assume) stereotyping and belittling is

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BabyDubsEverywhere · 11/06/2011 18:26

....The eye of the tiger....

balloonballs · 11/06/2011 18:26

A made up character you say?

As in not real?

As in would be slightly bizarre to have multiple threads staunchly defending said imaginary character?

                         <strong>imaginary character</strong>

Well who'd of thought.

TeddyMcardle · 11/06/2011 18:28

Shirley, I said took it on another tangent, not a racist tangent, but less about travellers and more about south London and singing yes? So I've never called you or Hully, or anyone who hasn't been racist, racist.

In fact I thought I'd left th thread agreeing with you that Beesimo was wrong to say what she had and so were the others who'd used it as an opportunity to have a go at travellers.

Ok.
Confused

Hullygully · 11/06/2011 18:28

When you became silly at the end, you may well have been being silly about a person that wasn't real, but the culture you were ( i assume) stereotyping and belittling is

Ah, you see sadly you nivver read it. Noope the last 402 pages had absolutely nothing to do with er or er culchure. Just us, larking about our sarf lahndan childhoods.

pink4ever · 11/06/2011 18:28

hully are you addressing me when you refer to "pinky"?. Sorry but think you have mistaken me for someone else as I am most definately not a pack member.

Hullygully · 11/06/2011 18:28

A WIMAWAY A WIMAWAY

balloonballs · 11/06/2011 18:29

I assume. Two words beloved of the foolish.

Hullygully · 11/06/2011 18:29

Oh Pinkykins, don't be coy...

THERE'S ROOM ON MY STICK FOR TWO
JUMP UP HERE RIGHT BESIDE ME.......

Shoesytwoesy · 11/06/2011 18:30

was that the thread about the stuff that went on yesterday, in which case maybe it was the personal attacks on the other person iynwim

Mamaz0n · 11/06/2011 18:30

balloon. Again, i am not defending &Sorry, make them leave school at ANYONE

I am pointing out that there was an entire thread with a very racist tone to it.

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