DH thinks I am, but is this really the norm? TMI warning

[foolserrand]

Ok, sorry in advance.

Dh spends an average of 20 minutes (up to one hour 5 mins!) pooping each time he goes to the loo. He refuses to "push" and the one time he did, he gave himself a hemorrhoid (sp?)

He argues this is a normal length of time for men to spend in the john, but I question that. Neither my father or brother ever took that long!

So, aibu to ask him to hurry the fuck up?

Creeps back in. Horrified this is still going on. Runs away, blushing and vowing to never drink vodka again.

yes , but it's strangely fascinating!