Am I?? Will show DH this thread.

[TotorosOcarina]

DH has been in touch with an old workmate through facebook. He wants to meet up, including his mates wife and kids.

He has invited them for a BBQ tomorrow without letting me know beforehand. I don't want them to come because ...

a) I just gave birth last Wednesday ans still haven't managed to get myself together and even get out of the house (bar 1 esesstial, disastourous trip)

b) the house is a shit tip because of baby arriving and us being distracted by new arrival

c) the weather says its going to piss it down tomorrow meaning we WON'T be having a nice BBQ in the garden- we will end up sat in our TINY livingroom with 4 adults and 7, yes seven children under 6.

And this is a family I have never met before.

So AIBU in asking him to cancel??

So glad you sorted it out. Your dh didn't sound as bad as other people were making out, I think he is great - just over excited!!! it is still better to stick to what you know ie no visitors for a while and then gradually get a social life, BTW the idea of a pub lunch with baby and all those dcs would fill me with far more horror than being able to stay at home where me and dcs could feel comfy, especially as DH seems to do more than his fair share of chores so you wouldn't be left with it all.xx