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I know abu , bralesss , how do I stop it bothering me (may be offensive)

100 replies

SueSylvesterforPM · 28/04/2011 19:19

this may

I knows its ridiculous, not so much flatchested women but if someone on the saggy/larger breasted side is obviously not wearing a bra, I feel this wave of feeling sick and like a claustophobic feeling like I have to move, itsn ot just a dislike its physical disgust. And its getting ridiculous plus I'm sure the people notice which can't be too nice.

how do I go about stopping this?? and stop being a crazy lady??

OP posts:
SauvignonBlanche · 28/04/2011 19:21

I haven't got one on atm and I'm an F cup!

TheMonster · 28/04/2011 19:21

I know a large chested lady who goes without a bra and it is not a pretty sight.

worraliberty · 28/04/2011 19:21

Errr stop looking at their tits? Grin

SauvignonBlanche · 28/04/2011 19:22
Grin
zookeeper · 28/04/2011 19:22

look elsewhere.

SueSylvesterforPM · 28/04/2011 19:24

Errr stop looking at their tits? grin

LOL Grin

OP posts:
pinkthechaffinch · 28/04/2011 19:25

I've never noticed this

dexter73 · 28/04/2011 19:26

It's quite mesmerizing though when you see a huge pair of uncontained tits swinging about! It's a bit like when you see men in lycra shorts and you have to stare at their crotch even though it's an awful sight!

MillyR · 28/04/2011 19:26

I feel the same way about beer bellies. Just try not to look too closely at anyone.

FreudianSlipOnACrown · 28/04/2011 19:26

I feel like that too. My norks are huuuuge and erm unperky to say the least! I often go bra-less at home but in public, no. Just... No.

WinterOfOurDiscountTents · 28/04/2011 19:27

Get some therapy? Because thats a bizarre reaction.

FreudianSlipOnACrown · 28/04/2011 19:27

I feel like that about any braless adult woman btw not just the large of boob.

Hulababy · 28/04/2011 19:31

I often go braless, esp under strappy tops and especialy in hot weather. In holiday I can go all week without having to wear one.#

However I am not large chested by any means and everything is still in the place it is supposed to be.

LaurieFairyCake · 28/04/2011 19:32

I feel the same

Not about tits (have 36j's) but about smelly people

My stomach unwittingly heaves, wish I could prevent it

notnowbernard · 28/04/2011 19:33

I would LOVE to be able to go braless

Mine look alright tethered. Release them and it just ain't pretty

LaurieFairyCake · 28/04/2011 19:35

Ive put tiny amounts of vicks in my nose when I counselled someone who was homeless and someone else who was afraid of soap and used a tool to scrape her skin instead.

I don't like the smell of vicks much, but at least it stops the boaking.

amberleaf · 28/04/2011 19:35

Why would someones breasts disgust you ?

Ishoos much

ilythia · 28/04/2011 19:38

I can see where you are coming from, I have large breasts and would never go out in public without a bra.
It's the older generation with tight tshirts on and no bra. And boobs round their waistband

Glitterknickaz · 28/04/2011 19:38

Would now be a bad time to tell you my 36JJs are untethered and swinging in the breeze? They nearly reach my knees nowadays

meltedchocolate · 28/04/2011 19:40

I have teeeeeny weeeeeny breasts but have the most pointy nipples! Even through a t-shirt bra you can see them but at least they are not at diff levels in a bra. Damn pregnancy making them grow and leaving saggy (yet hardly there) wonky breasts behind! Would THIS make you feel uneasy?

And yes, that was a total excuse to have a little rant about my boobs :) Which I kind of like for being so odd :o Right, now you all think I am weird I better leave this thread :o

WinterOfOurDiscountTents · 28/04/2011 19:41

because women are meant to force themselves to wear uncomfortable garments whether they want to or not, because their bodies are disgusting and make twats people heave? Hmm

There are so many different things wrong with that I don't know where to start.

FoofffyShmoofffer · 28/04/2011 19:42

Braless in your own home is perfectly fine.

In public you should rein the girls in for decency's sake.

There is nothing better than reclining on the settee at night a bosom under either armpit.

There is nothing more hypnotic, in a bad,bad,bad way than a giant pair of knockers swinging towards you in the town centre.

Not boak, just....disconcerting.

DontGoCurly · 28/04/2011 19:42

I have that feeling too. But it's my own boobs causing the feeling! I even wear a bra in bed to hide them from myself and prevent crush injuries!! [cblush]

Crawling · 28/04/2011 19:43

I feel phyiscally sick when I see skinny people (by skinny I mean hip and rib bones showing) but mine comes from a time where I wouldnt eat and lost weight to the point it was painful. So I know where mine comes from and that it is my issue.

However I also hate my breasts 34G cup Sad

dexter73 · 28/04/2011 19:43

If your bras are uncomfortable then you are probably wearing the wrong size. I feel more comfortable wearing one than not.