Ok well since the summer weather has really hit and all the girls are around with their shorts, strapless dresses and spray tans my husband has had his birthdays come all at once. Now, if he has seen a pretty girl in the car he has looked, then looked in his wing mirror and then his rear view mirror. He did this in the car 3 times today. I then said " Did you get a good enough look?". He said everyone does it, even women and that I am being stupid because it is not like he is actually going after her. I asked why he didn't feel it was a bit disrespectful clearly checking out other women whilst I am next to him in the car. He just said he thinks it is fine and doesn't care if I do the same.
Now I don't live on another planet. I know he looks at pretty girls...but it felt like over kill checking all his mirrors and left me a bit upset. AIBU?
I told him "Fine - do it then. I don't give a shit if you do now.".